My 1-year-old throws major tantrums when I tell him no: Advice?

Hello. I wanted some advice/tips from other mommies. My son is 1 and he acts like no is the end of the world. He throws FULL tantrums, will grunt, scream, and hold his breath if i tell him no or move him from something he’s not supposed to have.

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Ignore it. Praise him when he’s behaving well. Same thing with my youngest. He’s 12 now and most laid back kid ever.

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My daughter will be 2 in May and she does this. I ignore it but I make sure she doesn’t throw herself back to hurt herself. (I get scared if she hurts herself especially her head) but other than that I ignore it so she will learn that no means no

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He’s a typical 1 year old

I used to laugh and walk away. I know that’s not what the "experts " advise. It worked for all 5 of mine

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Normal. Remember the can only hold their breath so long once they pass out there going to breathe again, horrible thing to say but that I’ve known a few kids like that. 🤦Usally blowing in the face lightly makes the take a breath n

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Just sucks that people still feel they need to stare or open their mouths as if it isn’t normal

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He testing you to see what he can do to get his way. Ignore them.

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Ignore, do not give in or it will intensify

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walk away and ignore his tantrum, which, by the way, is his design for attention.

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Start sitting hi. In time out until he is quiet. Tell him when he is quiet he can get up. If he gets up while still throwing his fit put him back on time out spot until he is quiet. Just keep putting him back until he gets quiet. Babies are a lot smarter then people think they are.

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Welcome to parenthood :rofl:

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It’s the age my daughter does this around my bf because she knows shell get away with it because daddy isnt firm with her only mom and shell even naje herself puke I just walk away and ignore it

My one year old daughter throws her self onto the floor when we tell her no or take away something she knows she’s not suppose to have…I seriously can not do anything but laugh at her because it is so dramatic and funny…I think it works though, she only does it for a minute tops and then she’s fine lol

When at home I ignore it and when my daughter stops I let her know that what she is doing is not acceptable. When out and about I get at her level and calm her down and try to distract her from what she is throwing a tantrum about. She’s almost 3 and it has worked well for her, but they are young kids and can’t guarantee it will work all the time

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Don’t respond to it. Just keep to your guns. This is normal. He’s testing boundaries and seeing your responses. If you respond to his tantrum, he’s going to escalate to try to get his way. This is likely the next year or two, depending… but you’ll weather through it.

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Time out my foot. A light smack on the bottom will get his attention immediately.

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I had mine focus on his breathing when he was throwing fits. It took a couple weeks but people are so impressed at how fast I can stop a tantrum by telling him to take a deep breath in and out.

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Ignore it. Let him scream. He ain’t gonna hurt himself. Hold your ground. You say no. You mean no! Don’t let anyone watch him that will give into him and just give him what he wants (grandparents are the worst about it) it will make it 10 times harder on you I promise.

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Sounds easier than it was to get him there. But patience and ignoring his “demands” until he communicated them in a way that doesn’t resemble a gremlin lol.