My aunt examines my baby when we visit: Advice?

I would put this woman in her place real quick!

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Thats creepy…Id tell her they are your children and that they are well looked after…Id tell her if she does that again you wont visit…She is acting like she doesnt trust you to look after your own children…Almost as if she thinks you would hurt them…Its very bizzare behaviour

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Nah… Fuck that bitch she’s the CPS calling kind…

Id tell her to pop smoke. If its just bruises she looks for now, what about when your kid gets older? She gonna keep looking? This is toxic, bordering on the possibility for abuse in the future. Keep that baby safe momma! Just bc someone is “family” doesn’t mean they have a guaranteed spot in your kiddos life.

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Put ur foot down tell her to knock her crap or u will stop bringing your child around her. you are the mother

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One time that happens, we’d be done with that nonsense.

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Ya, no offence… I would have told her to f**k off a long time ago

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This seems really weird to me. Keep your hands off my baby and let her be a baby. I’ve never had anyone scrutinize my children like this.

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Absolutely no photos without parents permission. Sorry not happening especially say of your kids knee…like creepy. Or what if she got a bruise cause she fell on her bum trying to walk…that’s in appropriate photos.

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I wouldn’t take my kids around that! Kids get hurt! Shit mine have scars and tattoos and thier 4 and 6. (Joke everyone lol looong story)

Nahh id handle that quickly in front of as many people as I could!

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Quit letting her around them. That’s toxic af

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Hell no I’d be ending that ASAP. I’d give someone one chance to say something negative about my child to my face before immediately putting them in their place. That would also be the last time that person sees me or my child until I had an apology and they understand that’s never going to happen again and to keep their hands off my kid without my permission. Super weird, she sounds toxic and awful to be around.

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I would stop going over there… it looks like she is trying to get kids taken away from there parents!

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So a lot of people are gonna just chalk it up to she’s crazy or what ever but it could be her being hyper vigilant because something may have happened to her or just an anxiety could be ocd type thing also its not an excuse but it is a reason and she means well if you want her to stop talk to her tell her their are boundaries if she can’t or won’t then you might have to either keep visits short or cut back in how often you see her until she can respect your wishes you might have to remind her she’s aunty not mommy and I would also suggest that if she starts that just take your baby from her and ask her why she keeps doing this

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She is sticking her nose where it doesn’t belong! That would piss me off!

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Accuse her of being sexual bc thats goddamn weird and she should be super uncomfortable doing that. Intentionally make her feel awkward and gross about it so she stops.

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Yeah, no. Sounds really sketchy and I wouldn’t have her around my kid. :woman_shrugging:t2:

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No! She shouldn’t be around kids period! She’s creepy and it’s like she’s looking for trouble…she will get it fooling with me, just saying.

Stop taking them around this aunt. But also ask her what she’s looking for and why?

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