My boyfriend and I have a baby together but he still talks to his ex: Any advice?

I need help. My boyfriend and I have a sweet baby together, but he still talks to his ex. She has her own family and life but ever since we had our baby. She has been annoying and weird. I’ve told him about it and told him I wasn’t comfortable with it. He said he’d talk to her and figure it out. Well it hit the point that I’m over it, and I told him it’s either our little family or her, he slapped me and walked away. Yes, I did leave with the baby. But I just wanna know if I’m wrong for what I did or doing to my baby. I love him, and I thought he felt it too but it seems to me that his ex is way more important. Please I need advice on what to do now

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Ur in yhe right. Move on

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you did the right thing

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He slapped you? It’s over. Unless you want to be hit forever. Move on.

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He slapped you!? Never tolerate that. Bye.

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Do NOT ever forgive a man for slapping you regardless of the situation. Leave before it escalates

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Walk away and stay away

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You did the right thing

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Move on. If he slapped you over the EX there’s more going on.

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How are you doing something wrong to your baby when he slapped you? It’s not like you asked for it.

Regardless of what was going on he had no right to hit you. I would have walked away too

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Um pack up and walk away he slapped you in response of him talking to an ex while it’s his life and your not his mama … I get you not liking him talk to his ex . However you can’t claim trust if you don’t trust him .
you stated your piece and he hit you … words you need to say at this point is bye bye

A. You don’t trust him
B. He hit you because he got mad
C. It’s time to cut out he showed his colors

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If he hit you once he will do it again… RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN …

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Ummm he put his hands on you…? Seriously? Please leave and for good. Any man or so called man touches a woman in anger will always resort to violence.

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Stay away! Or else it’ll get worse

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I mean no disrespect but yes what you did was right and by him slapping you should tell you he wants his ex.

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You are 100% in the right, and no matter what he has no right to slap you or put his hands on you. He definitely chose his ex in this situation… girl run while you can, also should go to police so if he wants visitation it will be supervised seeing he’s abusive. Don’t let him take that baby alone, better to have it on record now rather then later.

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You are NOT WRONG. be strong. You are NOT an ultimatum.

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  1. he kept doing what you asked him not to… which yanno… happens I get it. BUT when he slapped you, that’s it. Fuck him. Excuse my language. That’s BEYOND NECESSARY. He should never put his hands on you. You did the right thing. LEAVE WHILE YOU CAN. && also. File a damn police report. If he can do that to you now, what makes you think he will stop next timeM

Get petty call the cops

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Abuse! Stay far away from him!!

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