My boyfriend has been acting different toward me: Advice?

I need advice! -so my boyfriend of 8 months has been acting very different. Lately, he’s getting so mad easily; it seems he’s getting a little more comfortable with yelling at me and calling me names. With the past experiences that I’ve had, I automatically assume he’s cheating. He keeps telling me to leave his house, telling me he’ll find someone better than me “easily”. I’m starting to feel stuck. Helppp

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They say people start to show their real colors after 6 months in a relationship

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Dudes get mean when they cheat because they think they have a back up plan. Get out

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Leave why waste your time if he’s making you feel this way

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Fuck him bye…ignorant ass…

Girl run ! Don’t subject urself to that crap at all. U deserve someone who will treat u right.

Fuckin leave him. If he says shit like that to you then you obviously dont mean anything to him. Boys will be boys. Find a man

Even if it’s not cheating the way his treating you is more then enough reason to leave. Don’t waste anymore of your life being put down!

Even if he’s not cheating I think you should leave! Mental abuse will wear you down immensely

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:triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post:narcissist :triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post: RUN!!

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Get out while you can.

If he’s telling you to leave then thats what you should do. Let him find someone better if thats what he wants. You will be better off without him.

Run and don’t go back. Sounds like a abuser to me. It will only get worse

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leave hes letting you know hes a pos beleive him!!! my daughters dad was like that and he ended up attacking me with our daughter and his daughter present and still isnt remorseful even after charges filed .

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Leave. Signs of narcist. My co worker of 5 yrs has been dealing her abusive boyfriend and he started this way. And she still ended up moving in with him :pensive:

Leave now. That’s it you don’t deserve to be yelled or treated like that. If he does it and you stay he will never stop.

Big Red Flag! Leave while you can

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Leave.
He’s a narcissist…
It gets worse.

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Leave him. If he can “find someone better than you easily” let him.

You are worthy and enough exactly how you are. If he wants something else let him. Go find your own happiness with someone who will appreciate you for all that you are and not make you feel like this.

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8 months?
Boy bye! :woman_shrugging::v:

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He is telling you without telling you. Leave before you hurt more

Leave. Let him find somebody “better”… make him stand on that shit :woman_shrugging:t3:

Run. This is not even worth the attempt of salvaging the relationship. It’s over. Run away skipping and enjoy your freedom. Boy bye! :heart:

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Cheating or not leave you don’t need a man like that

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Run as fast as you can!!! Get away from him!

Don’t walk out, RUN.

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8 months that boy was nothing but a trial lol cancel your free subscription

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He’s finally getting comfortable being himself. leave!

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Leave that is a toxic environment

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Leave! Because It only gets worse!

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8 months isn’t even that long at all. Run away immediately. If he’s that bad so soon, imagine how much worse it’ll be if you get more entangled with him.

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Runnnnnnnnnnn for your life

Name calling = deal breaker

Find someone better than him…

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This sounds a lot like my ex husband… like to a T

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Do you REALLY need advice? Come on now. He is calling you names. TELLING YOU TO LEAVE and that he can get someone better easily. What advice are you asking for here? You can continue to volunteer to be a victim or not. You get what you accept…Not a single person on this site has said stay so I don’t know who he thinks is going to come running to him so easily. lol He is an abusive narcissist. You are worthy of respect. Have some for yourself and get the hell out of there please.

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Get out now! Speak from experience

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Leave his house, find someone better.

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Run from this relationship while you can

Leave! It only gets worse

leave find some1 that wont treat u like shit

Well, do what he obviously wants Leave!

You need to go, and stay gone.

When he is angry listen to what he says and leave, never go back it will only get worse!

Sounds like you deserve better than your getting.

Its only 8 months don’t wait years… he’s gotta go your better than that

Tell him to go f#ck himself, and that you will find someone better than him… EASILY

Are You Packing Yet?? You should be!

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Make arrangements for your own place asap. Leave.

Stuck?!? He told you to leave honey so you should :pensive:

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Leave. Run, don’t walk!

I’d leave now… I no it be hard but this just Is screaming trouble

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Sounds like a narcissist! Get yourself GONE!

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I can tell you from experience now is the best time to go…

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Leave asap because it starts with the yelling then it turns to throwing stuff then it turns to physical violence against you. He could be on drugs he could be cheating but it doesnt matter it time to leave.

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Girl leave now before it gets worse. Don’t wait longer. leave one day when he isn’t there, block him, never look back.

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Leave now. Don’t wait.

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Also theres a pattern to look for… he’ll do these yelling things then he’ll apologize and things will go good for a few days or week then something happens that sets him off n its repeated cycle. The same with physical abuse etc.

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Roll out! He is what you call a narcissist, I stayed with a man for 11 years and he was the same way. I was to afraid to leave because of how he was. He would say some really bad things to me in front of my kids, in front of our friends he didn’t care. Leaving him was the best thing I ever did. You need to do the same.

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Why have you not yet left? Never let a man tell you that he doesn’t want you, more than once.

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Listen to him. Leave. :+1:t3:

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Nawp… a good whack of a frying pan might solve that :thinking::woman_shrugging:

He already told you to leave, are you thinking it’s just a joke?

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I know it will hurt, but right now is the best time to leave. PLEASE LEAVE. From experience you will be so much better without him and will find someone who won’t treat you that way

Why would you want to stay?

When they get comfortable with the yelling, they’re comfortable enough to hit ya! Not worth it because one of us is going down and I don’t play that mess…

Well then leave and do not go back . It will not get better ( only for short fake ass times ) .

Leave now. Never look back

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Fuck him off don’t need a man putting you down like that

Sounds like you all ready know what you need to do. I say its time to call it quits. If he treats you like that now, what makes you think it’s going to get better. You don’t need to be treated like that. You are better than that. I’d leave with my head held high and on my terms. That way you can say you ended things. And be glad you did. Good luck and you will find someone worthy of you.

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If hes telling you to leave, you blimmn leave… that fool loses out and u dont deserve that, you go slay elsewhere queen and leave that peasant to flounder…

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Only 8 months and he’s already telling you these things and trying to destroy your self worth… I’d definitely leave. If you feel stuck there are probably local programs in place to help people in your situation and provide temporary shelter. Good luck!

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Why do u even need to ask here

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Leave him Thats what happened with me and my ex and he turned abusive but it happened a lot faster than 8 months

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He might not be cheating on you but he is 100% emotionally abusing and manipulating you.

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His actions tell you all you need to know about where the relationship is heading… Stop clinging on to that last thread of hope that things will change, by doing that your only hurting yourself.
You know deep down what you need to do. I would rather leave & heal than stay in a shitty toxic relationship and be treated like :poop:
Know your worth.

Leave him you can find someone else also. He doesn’t sound like a prize.

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Go and don’t look back!

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Run as fast and as far as you can. It will NOT get better.

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Guess what I’d be walking… Let him try to find someone better than you… They won’t put up with him getting comfortable yelling at them and calling them names.
You don’t deserve it.

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Why stay when he’s giving every sign and actually telling you to leave?

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If he’s saying shit like that, it’s time to go. How much dignity are you willing to compromise? I would feel so humiliated if someone said that to me and I still wouldn’t leave. Girl, he ants you to leave, you can’t just impose your way into his heart if he don’t want it. Run mama, ASAP. YOU, will def find better, it won’t be hard.

You can find someone better.

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Don’t feel stuck just leave, if he has told you to leave then obviously he doesn’t want you there.

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I filed divorce this past March! We were together 15 years! As he cheated on me with my neighbor(aka as a “friend” to me). And let me say, this is definitely a HUGE red flag!!! He had acted the same way to me which in the end the reason why was his cheating. Prayers being sent up for you love.

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Only 8 months? Run. Now.

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Only 8 months? Too early for that shit. If U put up with it now he will think he can get away with it forever. I’ve been with my husband for 5 years married 4 an he has never ever called me a name. Don’t let this man put U down and lower your self esteem.

Leave! Your not married, have kids, a house etc! No reason to stay because you deserve so much better!

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Get the hell out of there! YOU can find someone better who will appreciate you and treat you properly. He is not worth the heartache which you have now and will get even more of if you stay

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Run and don’t look back.

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First… anyone who talks to you like that…has to be told straight up… don’t talk to me like that…then you want me to leave you got it…pack bag and leave…

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I don’t want to hurt your feelings but he doesn’t want you. From what you are saying, he’s doing everything so that you will leave. I don’t understand why you feel stuck? You will be better off just leaving.

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Run! Red flags it will only get worse

Get out, go, don’t look back, don’t take the abuse let him have who the heck ever he wants but don’t put up with that.

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You’re not stuck?! You’ve only been with him for 8 months, that’s nothing compared to the rest of your life - just leave & don’t give him another minute more.

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Uhhhh
You shouldn’t be “feeling stuck” if a guy is telling you “leave my house”.

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Fuck that it’s only 8mts say goodbye this is not Normal I use to think it was its not

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He is showing you who he is. Believe him.

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Are you stuck because you have no where else to go if so save up find somewhere to stay then leave he has no respect for you and he never will you do deserve better and feel happy if you stay you will lose self esteem and feel not worthy of anything then you will be stuck and very unhappy with your life take care do what’s right for you

Girl leave, he’s already calling you names he will be hitting you soon.