My boyfriend has been getting angry about the smallest things: Advice?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5/6 months. I’m divorced and have two kids. He’s a great genuine person with a great heart. He accepted my kids and loved them as there own. He’s great with them. He’s been there for me in every aspect …emotionally, financially. We got along great for the most part but recently started to notice him getting very angry quickly at the small things. He will snap and go about his day, not talking to me. For example, the other day, we argued because I saw one of my Christmas, he got me out on the table. He stormed out and didn’t talk to me for days. He’s never done this before to this extent. I am so confused as to why he’s like this, and he blocked me so I cannot even reach him. I know he didn’t have a great past as a teenager and young adolescent with his upbringing and I know drugs were involved. I don’t know my next step!

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Sounds like a deeper problem to me. Gotta talk to him about it.

This is a GIANT red flag.

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You either have to accept his rage full tendencies or move on. It’s who he is. It can improve and lessen but never go away. His reactions are his, not yours.

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He is acting like a child. Dump him.

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Well if he is ignoring you for days or won’t speak to you. That’s a red flag. Might be time to jump ship. Get out while you still can.

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He could be in a depression. Lots of love and lots of happy moments

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Narcissist! Never look back. Do not ignore the red flags hea waving in your face

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Reread that to yourself… has blocked you and not talked to you for DAYS? You’re not going to fix him and talking isn’t going to do a damn thing. Be done and save yourself a ton of grief.

I just read like a bunch of red flags :sweat_smile::sweat_smile::sweat_smile:

PSA
YOU DON’T KNOW SOMEONE FOR REAL UNTIL YOU ARE TOGETHER FOR AT LEAST A YEAR AND A HALF!
Aka when they throw red flags, leave. Not worth your time hun

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Umm red flag!! Always takes time for it to show! You need to walk away

He blocked you. Sounds like deeper problems. Anger will only get worse

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Leave while you can!

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I’d say he’s getting ready to cheat or has, just talking from experience

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If a guy is acting strange out of the blue usually ots because he is doing something he shouldn’t be and he blocked you seems weird.

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Let him go. Dont call. Dont text. Dont go to his house. Just leave it alone.

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Turn and walk the other direction

He blocked you? There’s your answer. If my man blocked me on anything so that I could not contact him I would take that as a goodbye.

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Ohhh classic narcissist. Don’t ignore those flags you will regret it

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