My boyfriend is cheating on me, I am broken: Advice?

I’ve been in a relationship for six and a half years. We have a daughter she is almost two years old. Yesterday someone called my boyfriend. I was handing him his phone but looked at who called him. The name was ‘’ my babe” in our language. I was choked … I answered the video call and saw a girl showing her ass in a dress. The minute she saw me, she closed the call. I asked my boyfriend what is this. He said it’s nothing. I told him to open his phone right now, or he could leave. He left. This really broke my heart. I trusted him with blind eyes and can’t believe how stupid I am. I’m lost and don’t understand how he could do this to our family. He always acts normal and told me every day how much he loves me. He didn’t reach out to me at all. I just don’t understand why. I blocked him, but he didn’t even call to explain himself. I’m so done right now. I can never trust him again. I feel so sorry for our daughter.

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He’s not worth shit. Leave him.

Good. Walk away. Dont unblock. Nothing only allow him to see kid and THATS IT! I learned hard way dont give second chances to cheaters.

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Its hard but clearly he doesn’t even want to fix it. Try and forget about him.

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The best advice I can give, from someone who went thru this, is to not look back. Whatever this fling is that he is having will not last and he will try to win you back. Please please dont fall for it. It’s not worth it. You and your daughter deserve better

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Good riddance to bad rubbish. Dont let it get you down, neither you nor your daughter deserves that mess. Youre a Queen!! Now wipe your eyes, fix your lipstick…and slay!! :sunglasses: you got this girl

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Leave :clap:t3: his :clap:t3: sorry self :clap:t3::clap:t3::clap:t3::clap:t3::clap:t3:

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With time, you’ll get over him. Just focus on raising your baby girl and let him be in her life as much as he wants

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That was you and your daughter blessing actually someone more loyal and trustful is waiting on you

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You are worth more then him. You have to remind yourself of this everyday.

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I’ve been in the same situation as you and the best advice I could give you is LEAVE HIM… It’s hard at first and it takes time to move on but it’s all gonna be worth it for you and your kid. Running back to him isn’t gonna fix what he did to you. What’s Done is Done!! You and your Daughter deserves Better

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If you blocked him then how could he call to explain? :rofl:

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You can’t and shouldn’t trust him

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That happened for a reason, walk away and don’t look back.

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Been there, done that. Only when I first kicked him out because of it, I only knew of ONE… Once he was gone, I found out about a LOT more. He even tried with my neighbors, and DID get in bed with a close family member on my side!! She was always over, but acted like it was to visit me and my little girl… Bastard! Not worth ur time. Move on! There is MUCH better out there!!
If he did it ONCE, he WILL do it again!!

I’m so sorry…been there…it hurts. Close the door and take this time for yourself and your daughter. You’ll find clarity.

Go forward with your daughter and don’t look back. It’s his loss

Tell that boy Adios :wave:t3:, Being a single mom will suck for the first few weeks but trust me. Its worth it at the end. No more stressing about a dude when you have a precious baby that already loves you for you.

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God has bigger and better plans for you, my dear :heart:

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I’m sorry he hurt you like that.