My boyfriend refuses to be intimate with me: Thoughts?

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, and I love him we live together and sleep In same bed every night, but he doesn’t do anything we haven’t had sex in over five months like since June or July 2019 and we hardly ever kiss or touch it’s like he just doesn’t want to he said it’s cause he’s never been that type of person that mushy loving kissing cuddling type but it bothers me a lot since we met I told him I was on birth control and I thought it was maybe he was scared I’d get pregnant, but we got over that, but it is now to the point I don’t know what to do what would any of you lady’s do please help.

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Go get ya some strange!

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Not saying this is the case but the same thing happened to me and the guy ended up being gay.

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Flick your bean right beside him! You have needs and they need to be met. Cause trust me he getting his.

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Is he deep in the closet? It still happens. Good luck :+1:t3:

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Actually terrible myself at intimacy, sometimes felt it was forced in the past, not everyone has a high sex drive, if things are ok with the rest of the relationship maybe just see how else it goes x

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Are you sure he likes women? Might he have erectile dysfunction? Is he happy in your relationship?

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Only thing I can really think of is he’s gay. Even men who are cheating will still end up wanting sex but for him to not want it at all is just odd

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Type A sexual, look it up

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He’s either, gay, cheating, or sexually unattached to you.

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He’s getting it somewhere else and it might be from another man

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Sorry sweetie, he’s gay. You are his cover story.

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Vagina deserves better💚

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Does he work his ass off
To provide for the two of you.
As long as you and him are happy together
Intimacy may be a little different.

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I say follow him, check his phone, pop up at his job. Sounds like he’s cheating to me… or he likes men better :woman_shrugging:t2::woman_shrugging:t2::woman_shrugging:t2:

He’s probably cheating on you

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Were you guys always intimate before he moved in? Because if he wasn’t always looking for sex before he moved in then he’s probably not into sex or gay. Cheating is a possibility but you’d have to snoop to find that out.

Make him your ex-boyfriend, you should never have to wonder about things like this

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If he was getting it from someone else then it’s not a very good cover up completely rejecting you. Definitely seems strange… I’m thinking he’s gay!!

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Some people aren’t sexual. It’s perfectly normal.

You can either accept it, or end the relationship. You can’t force him to have sex with you.

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