My boyfriend was on his phone in the middle of the night and then threw it when I woke up: Advice?

So I’m not too sure what to do. Last night I and my boyfriend, were hanging out having a relaxing night we go to bed, I woke up in the middle of the night and he was on his phone threw it across the room wouldn’t let me see what he was looking at and then ran in the bathroom deleted whatever he was doing and said all he was watching was porn and didn’t want me to see. I don’t know if I should believe him or not

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It may have been some freaky deaky porn you wouldnt approve of,

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Trust your gut instincts. Sounds like he was doing something and got scared he was getting caught. If it was only porn as he said, then why throw the phone?

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And that’s not problem enough …?

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My partner said he would do the same thing. He was probably just surprised that you woke up and didn’t know what to do. He also could’ve been looking at some weird porn and was embarrassed. If he hasn’t given you any other reason to think he’s cheating, I would believe him.

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If he was willing to say “it was just porn” he is lying. It’s something more

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If it was only porn why would he throw his phone across the room? Either which way he is hiding something and doesn’t sound like he is being honest. There are some real red flags here.

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Definitely red flag for me. Definitely watching something and getting caught.

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Probably snapchatting.

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Maybe some live stuff. Its shady. Not cool.

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Oh he’s cheating cheating :joy:

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Porn was the beginning of the end of my 30+ year marriage. Porn and sneakiness.

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Tomorrow night invite 14 circus performers and a few farm animals into your bedroom, lock the door on them and let them wake him up while you grab your camera, that ought to straighten things up

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Trust your gut. Seems sketchy to me.

Def talking to someone he doesn’t want you to know about

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He threw his phone??? That reminds me of my one ex I took his phone into the bathroom he almost broke the door down. HE IS HIDING SOMETHING

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Ugh stuff like this always gives me that heartbreak feeling in my stomach
Honestly I’d just leave. No shady shit.

Definitely shady. My boyfriend and I both trust each other enough that we can leave our phones with each other and not have to worry. If he can’t leave his phone with you, throws it, and has to take it to the bathroom to delete, then in my opinion, its very shady and I wouldn’t hang around.

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Porn can seriously destroy a person and a relationship if it’s not an open thing in your relationship. I think you know he’s being dishonest.

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I had an ex that did this to me but through the phone in water and guess what…he was cheating. Leave.

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