My now boyfriend and I share an almost 3 yr old son together. First, his kids were great they loved my son and my daughter, but now when he isn’t around they are mean to my kids and me… he doesn’t see that side because when he is around, they act differently… need advice before they ruin our relationship he won’t get on to them or anything cause he is very timid and I think don’t want them mad or them to not cone around.

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Most cell phones record :imp:

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I would secretly video tape it

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Record and send to their dad

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Record the behavior and show ur bf!

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Time for dad to put up a hidden camera. Can’t see unless you see right!

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I also immediately thought record it.

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Swat their butts. Not right to miss treat anyone

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Record it definitely

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Video tape them for proof and never leave your kids alone with them. My daughters older siblings used to be the same way until she got hurt and I had all the proof on video . Need I say they are not to even look her way ever

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Video them. Secret camera

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Do what everyone else is saying to do record it and show your boyfriend.and not just one time record it every time you see it

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Oh ffs video record it lol if you have a decent relationship talk about it…if my partner dared video my kids as proof to win some sort of pissing contest like see your kids are bad I’d walk

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We have NEST cameras throughout our home. It’s a great teaching tool to show everyone in our household how it actually is not how we perceived it to be.

Two words: Nanny Cam. Also maybe there is something else going on. Not in your home necessarily but maybe at their moms house. Maybe the two of you need to sit down ask questions to see if there’s some way you can help. If it’s been 3 yrs and this is a recent change in behavior something else must be going on. Doesn’t hurt to ask. Kids tend to act out when and where the feel safe, and cannot fully Express their emotions. But I would definitely get video evidence of the behavior and get him on bored.

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I’m assuming they don’t live with you. Tell him you’re not his babysitter. If he can’t parent his kids during his visitation then he needs to let the mom have them full time. Its pathetic how men complain they get so little time with their kids while others pawn them off onto women in their lives just to take them from their mother.

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Catch em on video so he dan see

Agreed. Get a nest camera and let everyone in the house know. Go all out if you can.

Let him know talk to him and if he doesn’t believe you and doesn’t do anything about it then tell him you are gonna set up cameras