My childs father doesn't want to pay me child support because of the stimulus: Advice?

Hi, so my child’s father and I are not together. He is court-ordered to pay me 400$ a month. He randomly messaged me saying that he’s only sending me 100$ because I should be getting the 600 for our child, and he “deserves” half of it? So 300, I have our child the most, and I’m not sure if I should just let him send 100$ or just not say anything and if he ends up sending 100$ to let the courts know.

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My ex who owes back support of 6,000 to me got his stimulus this time. They are not taking it for child support this time around!

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Let him be an ass and report it to the courts, he will get in trouble and have to pay regardless of what he thinks. If the government thought he deserved the stimulus for the child he would be getting it not you, sounds like he’s trying to manipulate you and make you feel bad.

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Print that message out and show it to the judge. If he wants a readjustment, he needs to file for it.

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Let the courts decide . .really . .it takes more than that to raise a child!

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Such bullshit what a jerk you report to the court that he is not paying court ordered amounts

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He is no more entitled to half your stimulus than he would be entitled to half your tax refund he would be in violation to only pay $100

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Ask the courts what they think

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Lmfao thats not how things work. Call the probation dept and tell them

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I’m sure the court will find out he isn’t paying you the full amount. I would actually keep a copy of the message, just in case you need it in the future.

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You need to let the court know NOW

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Not his decision to make the court made that decision for him .

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Time to take it to court and have it go through the court for payment…it may take a little longer to get money to you, but he won’t be able to pull that crap without punishment (taking it directly from his checks, tax refund, suspension of license and even jail time if he doesn’t pay what is court ordered)

Take it to court and let him explain Y he thinks he should just pay $100🤔

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He deserves half why? You should speak to a lawyer. Or someone in your court system. I do not think what he is saying is correct but I would keep his message as evidence. I mean if he normally is responsible and is going through a rough patch okay but remember that is your child right. Its not a gift

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Go to court & tell him you’re gonna do it

You should try to get his child support to come out of his paycheck and then to you. There wouldn’t be an option not to pay you what the court decided on for a payment. I feel like whatever parent has the child the most should get the stimulus payment.

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If it is court ordered he’ll still owe the other $300, if he falls behind they’ll take it in arrears which they add fees to so won’t benefit him much, not sure fighting it would be worth it, let him pay what he pays, child support will take care of it.

I would tell him, you won’t accept that. If you tell him that and he still only sends $100 then let the court know.

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Send him to hell and tell him if you claim your child on your taxes, which apparently you do if you are getting the stimulus, then you deserve the $600.

I thank god my ex knew not to play those bullshit games with me