My childs father has cheated and is still talking to the girl: Advice?

My baby’s father and I have been together for six years. We had a beautiful baby boy two years ago. He is his first child being at kinda old age 43. I found out about four months ago that he has been cheating on me. I first kicked him out for a week, and he begged me to come back and make his family work, so I agreed; I just recently found out that he’s still talking to the same girl four months later and won’t leave her alone because obviously he never stopped but at the same time tell me he loves his family and me… what should I do I’m so lost any advice would be helpful

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To the curb and the end

Actions speak louder than words.

Tell him bye and move on. He’s never going to stop and you’re better off finding happiness down the road

He cares little about you or your happiness if he is still sleeping around. Refuse to be disreapected and drop his sorry ass!!

Actions speak louder than words. Leave…

You’ve been together with him, but he isnt with you🤷‍♀️

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Your only good choice is to leave

See person you both can talk too

Tell him me or her. Cant have your cake and eat it too. Kick him out again and tell him to go to counseling and take it slow. It may work may not

He wants the best of both worlds! Once a cheater always a cheater. The trust is lost and will be very hard to earn back.

Girl make him leave he thinks that since u let him come back you will do it over n over again and it’ll hurt you so much worse and the child

He can’t have his cake and eat it too. Girl you deserve better. Find someone who only wants you! Plus you want to set a good example for your son. Show him it’s not ok to treat women that way!

why are you still with the creep leave him file for child support custody call it a day hes a grown ass man cheating hes not going to change nor does he care about you or he wouldnt do it

You gave him another chance and he blew it. If he truly loved you, he would not cheat period. He needs to go

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You kick his ass out for good. Please do not show your little boy that this is how women deserve to be treated. This man does not love you. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and refuse to be anything less than someone’s first choice, and first priority

If he truly cared about you and your family he wouldn’t be talking to other women. Leave him for good.

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Tell him, “Don’t let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya!” :v::v:

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Match energies. Tell him you will act accordingly. He wants this girl, you’re out of there. He’s making his choices and let him find out there can be negative consequences.

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I went though something like this and i forgave and forgave and it happened again and again. Before we had a child. 2 years ago we had our daughter and it became an issue again. 9 years… and now he’s so sick of the person he made me he blames me for my actions about his actions… leave now. Because I believe people change but if he didn’t then he won’t now. Leave before it hurts more years from now when u finally have the courage

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