My childs father has cheated and is still talking to the girl: Advice?

Open the door and kick his ass out it… he has NO RESPECT for you or your child.

He will keep doing it

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Children learn how to give and receive healthy or unhealthy love and respect from what they live while growing up. For me the question is what do you want to teach them and instill in them?

He isn’t gona change. He’s just manipulating you

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Kick him to the curb old saying is once a cheater always a cheater.He will just cheating and lying if he keeps getting away with it.

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You better put that man out for good. He’s old enough to know better and you have a child to raise. Think of your child. That baby doesn’t need to grow up around the arguing and fighting that comes with those kind of relationships. And you don’t want your child thinking that thats how relationships are… he not going to change and don’t waste your life waiting in misery for something that’s not going to happen.

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You let her have him and thank her for taking someone so shitty off your plate. Set up visitation for y’all with the child and you move on to find someone better.

Kick him to the curb. Once a cheater always a cheater

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Bye Felicia!!! Take it from someone who has put up with this crap for the last 8 years…it will only get worse!! You deserve so much better hon <3 After 23 years of marriage n dealing with his alcoholism I finally got the balls to call and get the ball rolling last week!! Your kids will Thank you in the end…I read a quote the other day that said…staying in a toxic relationship/marriage will do more damage to your kids than being a single parent!! Good Luck!!

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Walk and get child support. Be smart. Get it all lined out

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At the end of the day you have to set example of what a good healthy relationship looks like for your children. Since you already tried talking to him and there is no change then the best thing to do is separate yourself from him and love him at a distance.

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Leave his sorry ass! He’s not your person. You will find someone that appreciates you. That loves you. No one deserves to feel like they are not good enough. Let that man child get to stepping. It will be the best decision you will ever make for your self worth. From one mother to another than has been there done that.

Let her have him he’s not gonna stop cheating

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U know what u have to do. the deision u have to make s the scariest one to date that u will be making. he will not stop

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If he wanted you there wouldn’t be anyone else period. You will only get disrespect you continue to allow.

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I know you have children with this man but girl!!! Life is too short don’t waste it on a man who obviously doesn’t care!! Kick him out find someone who won’t do that to you!!!

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Choose yourself. He came back and felt be could have cake and eat it too. Leave him alone relationship wise. Its only going to hurt you and mess with your peace and self esteem. He has shown he can’t be trusted and is deceitful.

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You need to let him go if he love u n your family he wouldnt be cheating

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He won’t stop, leave sooner rather than latet

Get rid he’ll never change and he’ll just think your a fool and actually need him by having him there,u deserve more and probably feel better in yourself and get your self esteem etc back and change your ways.

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