My ex doesn't let me see my daughter often: Advice?

Hi I would like this anonymous please if you could post my question to the page. So I have a 5 year old daughter who I rarely get to see due to the relationship with her dad. I personally don’t have any bad feelings towards, whenever I make plans with her and I make sure her dad knows this too he always makes an excuse to why I can’t see her. He gets upset when im not around enough but also gets equally if not more upset when I am. I don’t know how to go about seeing my daughter if every time I try he stops me from seeing her. Its getting really hard because I love my daughter so much and I really would love to spend time with her.

Get legal help, with a custody agreement

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You have to take him to court

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Court. The only way unfortunitely

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Thats a shitty excuse. Go to court and get custody set.

Court is your best bet!

Well clearly there’s a back story to this that we don’t know on why he has custody so nobody can really say who’s in the wrong in this :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Contact your state bar association (if in the US) and get legal counsel. You have rights

Totally agree you need to go to court to get visiting rights

Go to court get your visitation rights

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As above theres more to the story. It sounds like he has custody so I’m sure you love her but there must be a reason. Perhaps go to court for visitation

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Get a lawyer.take him 2court.get it in paper!

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If you have a court order,use it.if not,get one.

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IF u go FILE WITH CS AND U TAKE HIM 2 COURT THEY APPOINT U HELP…CALIF RULES

You don’t need a lawyer to file for visitation just go to the juvenile courts intake office and ask for a hearing it might be a small fee of around 20 dollars.

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Just like dads have to do
Go to court for a visitation schedule
Not fun when your on the other side n one parent holds all the power
Like moms say maybe hes afraid you won’t bring her back?
Whats the reason he has custody?

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Go to the court house and file for visitation. You don’t need a lawyer. You can file all of the paperwork yourself.

first of all why dont you have custody or a joint custod???

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Get a lawyer and go to court

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I can’t believe those of you asking WHY she doesn’t have custody. That’s not even important :roll_eyes::woman_facepalming:t4: you can give a perfectly good answer without knowing why she does not have custody. Sounds like she’s making the effort to see the child and dad isn’t letting that happen.

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