My ex is dating a married woman: Advice?

My ex is currently dating a married girl who is lying to her husband… she has two boys. My son goes over to his dad’s every other weekend… when my son is there, his dad continuously beings this girl around… my son does not like her… he tolerates her… I hate it that my son has to basically beg for his dad’s attention when she is around… I don’t feel like she should be there interfering in the father-son time… also, should I say anything to the husband?

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I would absolutely say something to the husband. Can you keep your son home so he’s not witnessing this?

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I’d tell the husband. But that’s just me. I’ve been cheated on before and I appreciated it when someone who knew told me.

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I would say something to the husband if she taking up my son’s time with his father but I’m petty lol :joy::rofl:

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Nope! Stay out of it. It will only make you look like you’re jealous. Unfortunately, there’s very little you can do about who he allows to be around your son. Unless you have proof they are doing something illegal or your son is in danger

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omg…mind your own business

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Mind your own business …

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Def tell the husband! If I were in that position I’d want to know. Screwed up when people know but say nothing about it. Minding your business is f*cked up

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If you have physical proof i absolutely would tell the husband. The relationships he models in front of your child are the ones your child learns from.

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I would tell the husband. But him having a girlfriend around is gonna happen.

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I wanna say mind your business cuz that’s the “adult” thing to do but the inner petty bitch says blow that shit up girl, if she’s taking time from your son ya know

Sounds like you’re looking for an excuse to cause drama. If your child isn’t in danger, let it go and move on.

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If it was the other way around. A woman would want a man telling her. So I would tell him. 100% I would tell him. But back it up with a lot of proof

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My opinion is do not say anything to the husband, that’s not your place and you have no idea the full story. Also unless you have cameras etc at dads house how exactly do you know your son is fighting for attention? Unless your son is in immediate danger of some sort i would not say a word.

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If hes not in danger you should just raise your son and not worry about the ex hubby. Unfortunately this one needs to play out. Just love on your son when he is around you and that is all that should matter

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Uhm no. Unless she’s a safety issue this isn’t your concern. No matter how f-Ed up it is. You are also about to create a lot of unneeded hostility with your ex. And he’s not going anywhere so you’d have to live with that.

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I don’t think it’s any of your business just because you don’t like what he/she is doing, but I’d definitely tell the girls husband

When her husband finds out you don’t know how he will react . What if he decides to go and harm your ex and your son is with him. It could be dangerous.

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It’s none of your business what he does in his private life just tell him to spend more time with his son.

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Unless you can prove she actually has a husband and is in a relationship with you ex…you sound jealous. If your son is not physically or being mentally abused stay out of your ex new relationship

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