My ex will not give me my son back: Please help!

I have a 13month yo son with my now ex-bf, we don’t have any custody arrangements neither family court orders, I’ve been away for almost two weeks for a family business while my son was with his father now that I’m back home to collect my son they won’t hand my kid back to me! I am a full carer for my son, and I do have a 100% custody until they take me to court, my son’s father family are always involved and telling my son’s father to keep him away from me cops are involved as me and son’s father have a DVO order against each other! Pls need advice on what to do no negative comments pls.

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Call the cops. If you’re primary, he has to give your child back to you.

Without a court order it’s typically a civil matter and the police may not do anything. If they won’t, go to the courthouse tomorrow morning and file for an emergency hearing.

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Without any court papers police wont get involved u need to go to the courthouse tomorrow and file for emergency custody to get him back

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Cops will only get involved if there is a custody agreement thru the court, if no agreement from court they wont do anything

You need to go to court and file an emergency custody order ex parte

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Without a custody agreement there’s nothing the cops will do. Go to the courthouse and file for custody.

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Can you file kidnapping charges

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if you have full custody for the time being take it to the police because with you having full custody that can be considered kidnapping

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someone is holding my kid from me and my initial action is to post bout it in fb. not a good sign. call 911.

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Unless you go to court you dont have 100% coustody of the baby he has rights just like you. If there is no parenting plan in ace he can take the baby when ever he feels like it father have rights to their kids just like mothers do the cops wont do anything about it because its a civil case your gonna have to get into family court asap on Monday I been through this the cops wont do anything hes the dad he has rights.

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You need to call the police. They are going to call CPS. And he will have to return your child. Right now assuming you have full custody … what they are doing is pretty much kidnapping. call the cops. I’m from Alabama , state law is if you were never married to the father the mother has all legal custodial rights to the child rather the father is listed on bc or not until their is a court order proving paternity and giving parental rights and visitation to the father. May be different from where you’re from. But call the police.

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Best thing to do is go file in court on Monday. He doesn’t have to give your son back without there being court documents stating a parenting plan. He is just as entitled to the child as you are.

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Depending on your state, he may have just as much custody rights as you do until court. Texas states that possession is 90% percent until court orders are made.

Without papers of custody there is nothing you can do nor the cops can do, I am sorry to say that… Go to the court and file and emergency custody papers and get into court

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Without anything through court, he has just as much rights to your kid as you do.

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If you don’t have a prior court order and he is on the birth certificate then whomever has the child can legally keep them. You will have to file a petition in family court.

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No order nothing you can do til you get full custody. Always have a court order when it comes to children

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Emergency court tomorrow

There is no custody order in the DVRO