My exes girlfriend keeps starting drama on facebook: Help?

My ex has this girlfriend who’s a drama lover. She’s always posting negative uncalled things on Facebook about me. My kids see it. They have a child together. Our oldest (15 yrs old) got fed up with it, and I didn’t know she had contacted her dad and told him that she’s never coming back to his house cause of how his girlfriend treats me. He just shrugs it off like it’s nothing to him. He says he tells her to stop, but she won’t. I don’t post on Facebook about them. It’s not the time or the place. My kids refuse to go there because of her actions. I’ve even had people tell me she’s a disease and will do anything to destroy my kids so she can have their father to herself and their child. What do I do? I’m lost, and my heart goes out to my kids. Talking to their dad does no good!

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Sounds like the dads gf is insecure and that’s her way of getting attention. I’d ignore it and have your kids remove her from social media so they can’t see her post. I am a step mother and I’d never talk about my step sons mother on social media! Don’t allow her negativity ruin the relationship the kids have with their father! Best of luck!

Let him face the consequences of his own actions. Remain dignified for you’re only responsible for your actions, not his.

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Block her on facebook?

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Let her have him, and move on with your life seems like hes not willing to change even for his family?

Listen to the kids, they will thank you for paying attention

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Legal action possibly if she is slandering your name

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He has no respect for you either. He’s allowing her to say this shit. And you can take legal action.

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Cease and desist letter

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Stop looking at Facebook and keep living your own life. If he doesn’t want to see his own two kids or doesn’t stand up to her to allow them to visit then that’s on him. He misses out not you.

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He doesn’t tell her anything… men don’t too much stand for disrespect, unless they’re completely spineless. I suggest therapy for you and your kids and blocking them on social media

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Omg…ever hear of blocking people on fb?

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Slap her in her head tell her to wake up to herself she’s jealous

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Just report to FB Administrator and they will be in FB Jail😟

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don’t give her attention, block her or close your fb accounts but that’s too much as it will give her the attention that she is looking for.

Best thing is to ignore her completely, unless she is harassing you or your children or directly cyber bullying you i wouldn’t give her the time or effort in any way, she clearly has too much time on her hands

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Like someone said up above. Seek legal action or let it go, because it seems like he’s made his choice and is turning his back on his kids and they are cutting ties to the nagative, so should you. Block her.
No sense in letting this eat you alive, that’s what she’s after. You are putting her on a pedestal without even knowing it

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Well this is on him and he’ll have to deal with his non actions later on

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Life is too short to spend time with ppl who comes with toxic baggage, and do nothing about it. Ditch him as he sees no problem in that. U might think its overboard but trust me, you will resent him. And worst kids are involved. Dramatic ppl are shameless, they had nothing to lose because they have no problem airing their dirty laundry to world, but YOU have so much to lose. Learn this the hard way with my ex, for 4 years he let his obsessive stalker student to continuously harass me, thou its not his fault, but he never really once told her away. Now he can rot with her

She seems like a textbook Narcissist who craves drama and hurting ppl I would keep my kids away until he man’s up and checks her because a jealous person is dangerous

If she’s not using your name directly then just ignore it. You are just giving her what she wants by feeding into her drama.

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