My family entered my house knowing I wasn't there: Advice?

So what do you guys think about this, it’s a family issue. So I have a house I live in, and some reason my family thinks they’re entitled to it somehow. But today I let my aunt know I was working all day and she, without letting me know, went to my house with her daughter and gave her a tour of my house without me there. She knew I wouldn’t be there. She also thought nobody else would be there. My boyfriend happened to get today off randomly, so he was there, and they showed up when he was leaving to run errands and let themselves in and took a tour of my house without me being present. She had the intention of going in without anyone there because she made the comment she knew where the key was anyways. What do you guys think about this, and how would you handle this situation.

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Change the locks and don’t tell anyone where the key is…problem solved.

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I’d be moving that key!

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Move the damned key or take it with you. Duh.

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Move the key… Easy

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If you don’t want anybody in your house don’t give them a key and don’t give them a code. If they’re breaking into your house maybe you need to think about never talking to them again?? Seriously just don’t let them have access to the house in that way bam problem solved

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Your house, your rules, you have a right to privacy, when, where and how you want, nip it in the bud.

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Change the locks and use deadbolts

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Nononononono. Change the locks now

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Change locks don’t hide keys outside anymore.

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Why not lock the doors, why is this even a post smh

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Change locks and get an alarm, don’t give out the code.

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Ummm change the locks and don’t leave a key? Seems fairly simple…:woman_shrugging:t2:

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I’d freak out,snap my Twinkie and let the cream filling spill out…wow some people have serious entitlement issues

Change the locks and dont tell anyone. Aint no telling if they made copies of it. Thats disrespectful as hell

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Change the locks and tell your family it’s your house. They’re violating your right to privacy

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Leave adult toys EVERYWHERE!! then change the locks

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Get the locks changed. Do not give anyone the key…even the boyfriend. That should stop the nonsense. If they ask you…then you can be honest with them. But do not give them the spare key…ever!

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Boundaries much? You can say change the locks, but I have a feeling that would be a lot of familial aftermath of drama,. Better to say you don’t like what’s going on. Best of luck. If your family, especially your extended family, thinks they can just walk in your house without ever bringing up asking, you need to speak up or they will keep doing it

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One word…

TRESPASSING

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