My fiance is against me wearing a bikini: Thoughts?

I’m getting married in June; my fiancée says bikinis are basically bras and underwear. We are getting married in Florida; I have two beautiful babies, both back to backless than a month apart. I have stretch marks, and all I’m comfortable wearing is bikinis. I’m already working out and trying to feel beautiful. I already made compromises on the wedding dress. I’m losing my confidence at this point. All I want to do is cry; I’ve already been thinking about getting a tummy tuck and fat transfer Idk what else I can do.

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Marry someone else ?

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Don’t let him control you before your tied to him.

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Wouldn’t have been a wedding even if it was me…

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U have 2 babies back to back less then a month apart? And u only feel comfortable in a bikini

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Major red flags, he won’t let you?

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This has nothing to do with how you look, and everything to do with him being controlling

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Don’t marry him. Hes trying to control what you can and can not do already

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I don’t usually comment on these but I do understand where he is coming from. He doesn’t want everyone else to see every part of your skin and bikinis are revealing. I don’t think he’s trying to exert control, to him it’s likely disrespectful to show so much skin. There are plenty of ways to be comfortable in your skin, look good and feel good without showing so much.

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RUN!!! That’s how control starts. Let then control one thing and they take it to another level. It’s a super red flag.

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Tell him to either fuck off and grow up or get out. Major red flag!

First step. Get rid of the guy

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Uhh no tell him bye :wave:

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why does he not want you to wear a bikini ?

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It’s not too late… y’all aren’t married yet :woman_shrugging:t2: Ditch him and go buy the cutest bikini you can find.

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:triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post: Red flags everywhere :triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post:

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Run like the wind , that’s not love that’s control :pray:

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Run away as fast as you can :running_woman:

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Are you sure this is a good idea? If he’s controlling now, it’s likely to get worse.

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Screw him. Walk away now! Control like that isn’t love. It’s a swimsuit. Not like you want to go to a nude beach.

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