My fiance sells videos of himself doing things: Do I have a right to be upset?

Am I wrong for getting upset when my fiance sells pictures/videos of his tongue? Don’t get me wrong sure when does more income not help? But making lewd comments with his “customers” and doing obscene things to bananas, lollipops, etc knowing full well what they plan to do with them makes me uncomfortable? (He’s bi)I’ve talked to him about it before, and he’s deleted his insta account getting mad about me being upset, but then he just makes one again a couple of weeks later with promises of not doing certain things or talking to certain people, and he still does them at one point or another. I just feel so crappy about it. Like if what we have is real, I shouldn’t worry about it. Or that I should talk to him about it, but it’s happened so many times in the past few years that I know the conversation and argument, and he’s just going to get mad and do it again in the end. I’ve asked to go to a counselor for over a year now, and he still hasn’t helped me find one. Idk what to do. Am I in the wrong? Am I wrong for getting upset when my fiance sells pictures/videos of his tongue? Don’t get me wrong sure when does more income not help? But making lewd comments with his “customers” and doing obscene things to bananas, lollipops, etc. knowing full well what they plan to do with them makes me uncomfortable? (He’s bi) I’ve talked to him about it before, and he’s deleted him into account getting mad about me being upset, but then he just makes one again a couple of weeks later with promises of not doing certain things or talking to certain people, and he still does them at one point or another. I just feel so crappy about it. Like if what we have is real, I shouldn’t worry about it. Or that I should talk to him about it, but it’s happened so many times in the past few years that I know the conversation and argument and he’s just going to get mad and do it again in the end. I’ve asked to go to a counselor for over a year now, and he still hasn’t helped me find one. Idk what to do. Am I in the wrong?

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Me reading this post

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He doesn’t respect you

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All I could do is laugh

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I mean if he was making money this way when you met him then you knew what you were getting into. It’s like when someone decides to date a stripper. Only you can decide if you can deal with it or not. You can’t make someone change to be what you want them to be. To me if the income is good and it’s just over the Internet then I see no problem with it :woman_shrugging:

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Just peacefully scrolling and then…

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This is an absolute mess!

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If he doesn’t respect your boundaries now he never will

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If he was doing this when you got together then what do you expect? I don’t have any advice I’m sorry.

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Ew what a weirdo LMAO

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Brianne Rachelle Michaela Haubert

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its sex work. if you cant handle being with someone thats into sex work snd he isnt willing to stop it obviously wont work out.

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Wait I can eat a banana on video and get paid for it…?

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Meghan Zahara thought we dealt with whack shit. Lmao

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That would not sit well with me
I would be upset n try get him to find a regular job to support u guys that’s alil wild

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You’re a stronger woman than me because if my husband tried to tell me that he liked men there’s no way he’s getting blow jobs from me ever again knowing where he puts it when he’s not with me

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People are going to do what they want to or be who they want to it’s self expression and their right to choose how they want to be. Unless he is harming someone physically then it would be best to mind thy business. You can’t change a person.

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Me reading this post bahahahaha​:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

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If you can’t beat them join them lol. :two_hearts:

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Well. If he loves his work and it isnt willing to give it up then move on. I can assure you, there are plenty of men that have non-sex related jobs Lol

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