My fiance was added to a group of all girls: Thoughts?

This may be lengthy, but long story short my fiances friend asked him if he could be added to a group with just girls… and girls he use to like for that matter. And he told me. But made it seem like he was already added. And then he got mad when I went off on his friend telling him that I wish he could have just asked me because both my fiance and his friend know I am very insecure…but my fiance kept defending his actions, saying he didn’t do anything wrong. Well, now tonight we have been grumpy with each other. And just now he went to the bathroom, and I got an email that he changed his Facebook password so I couldn’t get in… I have a two-year-old daughter, a little boy on the way. To make matters worse, I’ve felt so down and depressed…and this is making it worse. I’m lost at what to do, and I have no one to talk to. I’m scared to leave. Because I don’t know how ill take care of my kids. But im tired of feeling this way

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He and those girls must be plotting to cheat on you and made a group dedicating just for him to sleep with all of them just for shit and giggles… Totally some conspiracy there wouldn’t trust him…

It always start with changing facebook passwords :sweat_smile:

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It’s a Facebook group correct? Because I’m in one and it’s basically a sex group with out meeting the females but they do post nudity and a lot of it ! Tell him how you feel and see how he reacts’ but I wouldn’t leave over it …

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How old are you… :thinking:

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If he wasn’t hiding anything he wouldn’t have to

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I’m sorry… this is an actual questions? You’re mad about a Facebook group? :joy: What?!? Have you seen the state of the world today? Grow up. If you don’t trust your boyfriend then don’t be with him. Who has time for this gamey crap?

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If he’s changing passwords he’s probably hiding something. No way in hell would my boyfriend or fiancé be in a group chat with all women. Idc what exactly happened it’s disrespectful. Obviously there is more going on for there to be so many trust issues. If you’re not happy leave you will only regret it later. There are plenty of resources for single mothers if you decided to go. If he’s willing to compromise and talk things out maybe it will work. All these women blaming you are probably single or sleeping with someone else’s man. Good luck!

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Nah mate go nuts :joy::heart: I would. Fuck these girls calling you insecure and telling you to grow up :heart::heart:

Get that password, get him to show you what’s been going on and if he won’t or refuses to… I’d leave or kick him out.

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Hes hiding something on purpose…if it makes u uncomfortable, a group of girls should be the easiest thing to say no to. Red flags alllll over

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God blt you and your kids

Leave. It will just get worse. Learn as you go and put bring a mom first.

I’m in almost similar boat except my husband’s co-worker (male) likes to send him pictures of girls (in bikinis/ naked )… I have told him that I don’t like it and he needs to stop, I feel like this co-worker is encouraging my husband to look at these stupid pics. He’s also married… I was so close to sending him a nasty message to stop since my husband is to chicken to tell him. I feel this person is disrespectful towards me knowing he’s married he shouldn’t be doing that even though I have never met him

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Why would his friend need to ask you for permission. Are you his mother? The I security is in you. Work on your self esteem and you would not be intimidated by others.

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Change your facebook password and see how he reacts

When he’s showing you who he is…believe him

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It wasn’t that serious. His friend asked to talk to some girls and he gave him afew to talk to. He didn’t go out and fuck anyone. He clearly didn’t like those girls that much since he’s with you.
You turned it into more of a problem then it needed to be and he’s tired of fighting about it so he changed his password to avoid more argument about it cause I’m sure your going threw his and the guys messages now. Or anyone else’s.

Why do you need his password? Y’all need to be marrying people you trust, not people you feel you need to snoop on. This is silly, imo. Sit down, chill out, take a breather, have a conversation, and hash out your insecurities or eventually one or both of you will be miserable over it.

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Nah thats sketchy. Especially changing the password after joining that group.

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