My friend is seeing someone who is taken: Should I say something or mind my business?

Needing advice. What would you do if you knew your friend was messing with a man that’s taken? Proudly I might add. Should I just mind my business? I feel for the girl who doesn’t know she’s being cheated on. Also kinda feel obligated to tell this girl what’s going on even though my friend will find out exactly who told her and stop speaking to me. Thanks in advance for any feedback!

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I think you should say something. I hate cheaters.

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You will lose your friend. And the girl might not believe you

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I would tell the girl. Only because if I was being cheated on… HELL YES I’d want to know.

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If you still want to be friends with someone like that I would try and find a way to tell the other girl without your friend knowing. Act surprised when she tells you she found out.

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Don’t do it. It’s not your place. You’ll end up without a friend, the couple will stay together, and she’ll probably end up mad at you and/or not believing you.

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Personally If you are more than 100% sure they are supposed to be together and he is in fact cheating I’d tell the girl what her SO is doing. I’d rather know than to know my SO is making a fool of me behind my back. And if your friend is ok with dating a person already in a relationship I don’t think I’d want to be her friend for much longer.

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Would u want to know if it was u and ur husband?? I would hope so.

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You do what u think u should. If u think u should tell, then tell! I honestly think it’s the right thing to do. Doesn’t say much for ur friend if u ask me, or this “taken” man.

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If you want I will tell her. I have done it for a couple friends. You can message me

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Would you want to know if your SO was seeing someone behind your back? Cheating is never ok, and she’s proudly doing it. Cheaters make me sick! Tell her, and if your “friend” unfriends you because of it, well the trash took itself out.

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Or Dont say a WORD, The next time you see him PUNCH HIS ASS IN THE EYE and HE will have to EXPLAIN IT!

Straight up tell the poor girl

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Stay out if it . everyone going to blame you

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Tell her, but make sure you have proof

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I wouldn’t even want to be friends with someone who is okay with doing that

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I wouldnt want a friend that’s cool with doing that to another woman anyways. Girls need to have each others backs. If you dont tell the girl and keep your friend around whose to say she wouldnt try the same to you later on bragging to someone else. You dont need those kind of women in your life!

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Definitely do the right thing. Your “friend” is not a very trustworthy person.
Definitely not someone I’d want to be associated with.

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Tell her, can you imagine being in her place… So sad :cry:

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Tell the girl. Lose your friend immediately.

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