My husband acts weird when he comes home from work: Advice?

My husband acts weird when he is home from work. His phone stays on silent, and if I walk past him, he puts the phone down so I can’t see. He also leaves a lot and is gone for hours. And he doesn’t answer the phone when I call him or text. He works s riverboat, so isn’t home much to start with. He is the sole provider. And I don’t know what to do. I depend on his income to provide for our child, but I can’t shake the feeling he is cheating.

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Trust your gut girl . Ask him whats going on and if he gets defensive about anything then he definitely cheating

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If you have a feeling then he’s already cheated :+1:

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You are onto something

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It sounds like hes cheating.

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Trust your gut. Get a job. & Take care of what is yours.

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Trust your insticts. If he is behaving weird, there’s a reason.

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Trust your gut u are writing this like u know

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Get a job and take care of you and your baby.

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He’s cheating, confront him, then start doing the same thing

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Private investigator or when he is out ask him where hes going, then show up there and see if hes actually there…or set up a mini hidden camera in a place where he most uses his phone and see what hes upto… you’re gut feeling is usually right

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Start putting u some money to the side NOW. What’s done in the dark ALWAYS comes to the light. Focus on what you have to do and be prepared for ANYTHING

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I’d snatch that phone right out of his hand if he was acting suspect like that. That would be your first place to get your answers.

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I am so sorry you are going through this. Is you believe in God please pray and ask for guidance during this tough time. Perhaps suggest couple counseling for you two.

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He is
If it looks like a duck u know the rest
Tolk 2 him ask 2 see his phone

Are you not able to check his phone?

Sounde like he’s definitely hiding something, and I’m speaking from personal experience.

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Grab his phone and run to the bathroom. If he gets pissy he’s cheating.

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Also start putting money aside secretly…some just incase shit hits the fan and you need to make a decision to go your own way. The more you save the better. Also I am so very sorry and I hope it’s just not the case

If he’s your husband just ask him straight out if you can look at his phone
… if he don’t let you … there’s your answer . Leave the prick

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