My husband blames everything on me: Advice?

If anything goes wrong, my husband thinks it’s my fault and gets mad at me? For example: if something goes wrong with the car, it’s my fault; he automatically thinks that I did something to the car! What should I do?

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Get a divorce…that’s something he can blame you for that’s worth it!

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Leave. He sounds like a narracisst.

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Sounds like he’s guilty of something :flushed:

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Tell him to post off sounds like a jerk

Sounds like emotional abuse to me.

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Murder him!! Just kidding, talk to him about it

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I recommend that you read this book together. Especially if you’re newlyweds and still learning about one another.

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Sounds like conditioning for abuse. So when he beats you it will be your fault. Mental abuse for sure - like and find someone that values you.

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Sounds like a narcissist to me

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Gaslighting. Unacceptable

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Get a new husband. Stop putting up with that mistreatment. Seriously.

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Get a new husband. Someone that’s a blame pusher I someone who can never take the blame and will never stand for or with you only against you.

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My husband is the same way. It’s emotional abuse. I get blamed for everything single thing.

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Get a new husband if communication does not work and he is not willing to talk and change.

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This is not normally how a husband treats his wife…you need to have a serious talk about this issue and tell him you both need to go to counseling

Tell him to shut up. Sounds like a narcissist, so if its bad then leave.

Throw the whole man out.

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In about 1996-97 there was a book out called MEN WHO HATE WOMEN AND THE WOMEN WHO LOVE THEM. READ IT

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This does not work too many times. When I got accused - I simply said - exactly what I wanted to do. HE DID NOT KNOW WHAT TO SAY.