My husband deletes all messages in snapchat, even from guys: Advice?

Am I paranoid when my fiance talks to other guys and hides the messages by talking in either snap chat or just deleting the messages?

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Not necessarily a bad thing. He may just be ocd and not want to have clutter. Unless he’s given a reason not to trust him then don’t worry about it

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Snapchat deletes messages automatically after they are read.

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Then you need to be single.

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Isn’t that what Snapchat does in general? The whole app was initially designed for everything to be seen once and then disappear. Although maybe that’s changed (?)

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I would just ask him about it. I know I am OCD and I delete messages and stuff every so often and I don’t have anything to hide. But I’ve found that Snapchat can lead to trouble so I just deleted mine.

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Pretty sure they delete themselves

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If you Dnt trust him then why continue the relationship? You have to have trust or you have nothing

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Unless he changes the settings to “keep for 24 hours” then they delete on their own. I switch it to keep them for a day cause I forget what I say all the time lol

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After 24 hours they get deleted unless you specifically save them. Now if like the person’s name is gone then yeah he would have had to delete that

Snapchat messages automatically delete unless they change each individual conversation to delete after 24hours.

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My mom deletes everything, messages, pictures, phone calls everything. She says it takes up space on my phone. I also delete, it bugs me to have stuff on my phone that isn’t being used…if that makes sense. Nothing to hide just OCD kicks in

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Snapchat doesn’t keep msges unless you swipe to keep it.

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If you have no trust in him & are this insecure you shouldn’t be in that relationship.
Snapchat automatically deletes after chat is opened or if one person in chat changed setting to delete after 24hours.
My husband never saved any chats sent or that came in, never had any worries of it.
If you’re freaking out over even him talking to his guy friends…he’s not the problem here.

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If he posts you on snapchat nothing to worry about but if he doesn’t. Hmm

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Same as some of the ladies above… I generally delete repeated calls and non important numbers in my call list, snaps I haven’t talked to in a day or two, same with messages and fb messages. Clutter control for me. I dont like seeing long lists I have to scroll through.

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I cannot stand my feeds cluttered. I delete messages as soon as they are no longer needed. My husband has my passcode, he can check any time he wants.

She’s saying he either uses snapchat so they don’t get saved or deletes the text messages. I don’t think that is normal unless he deletes all his conversations. Might be something along the lines of what you’re thinking. But checking your partners phone without permission isn’t normal either. You already don’t trust him. There’s a reason.

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He messages males? Are they not just friends :roll_eyes:

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Messages delete after 24hrs automatically?

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