My husband doesn't help with anything and charges me for diapers for our baby: Advice?

Hey I’m not the type to really post questions here but I’m extremely confused on what I should do, I am a young mom who has been with the father of my kid since we were in middle school and got married a little before my child was born, during the pregnancy I did all the housework and cooking while my husband is at work… but now that my child is 9 months I started working and going to school during the day, my husband is on paternity leave, so he’s staying at home and doing one hour of school a day… and I get home around 7 every day… while my mom watches my kid all day, when we get back I bathe her and clean and cook but I’m tired sometimes and it kind of bothers me that my husband doesn’t take part of anything and when I mention it he calls me a bitch and tells me I’m crazy and shouldn’t complain since it’s my job if he ever has to watch or child he complains and tells me he’s tired too… Am I crazy or overreacting?! Also he will charge me for the babies diapers and everything I eat as well as anything that he considers “my spends” it kind of bothers me as well since I already pay most of the bills… I don’t know I just really don’t want to overreact pls help.

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Leave his ass now run and go far far away

Pack you and the kid up and get out.

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You don’t have a husband, you have a little bitch.

Forget that dude. Its a partnership or nothing at all. Run girl run

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You’re not overreacting
He needs a reality check and quick. I would have been out the door the first time my childrens father charged me for anything…do you really want a grown child the rest of your life? Because that’s what he is…not too mention selfish and cruel. Leave and file for child supoort so his lazy ass has to actually get a job. Just reading this made me furious. I couldn’t imagine actually choosing to be with a person like this.

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Do the same to him and see how he wont like it either. If he cant handle it then he can kick rocks.

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You aren’t over reacting
He is being horrible

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Your “husband” is a controlling piece of shit.

Take the kid. Go to your moms and get him for child support. This is not a healthy relationship.

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What a jerk. Do what you want but I’d leave him. Im the mother of one not two.

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Run as fast as you can .you both created that baby he should help

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U need to get out of that situation no husband should charge u for looking after his child he is to controlling

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Sounds like the idiot is fucking lazy and needs to be dumped. It’s called a “team” and if anyone should be charged for anything it should be him since he isn’t “working” so I’m just saying he’s a dick

You’re only crazy if you keep tolerating that mess.

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First of all you didnt marry a man ! What he is doing is being a lazy immature child. Lay it on the line if he doesnt start helping now he never will! If you are ok with verbal abuse then stay with him

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Do you have an cast iron skillet? If you do smack him upside his damned head with it until he gets it.

Throw his ass out!!!

Get rid of him you will be better off

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The ANSWER IS RIGHT IN YOUR FACE!!! WHAT IS Sup!!! GTFO of There, He’s a PUNK!!!

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