My husband gets drunk and says mean things to me: Advice?

I’m a stay at home mom of 2 girls (2-4), I’ve been married for five years, and my husband has gotten drunk and left to make me worry numerous times, and then just says horrible things about me to me and anyone around, it’s so hurtful and seems so very true especially that it’s happened after the birth of our second child and so many more, I just don’t know what to do.

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Run! It only escalates from there

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Leave before it gets worse!

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Get on birth control. Get away from him. It will only get worse…way worse.

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Why are you putting up with this?

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Leave it’s not worth it

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Please take those babes and leave.

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Uh…fucking leave!!! How is that even a question to ask?? Yes you can do it on your own…no it won’t be easy, but it’s better then allowing your girls to grow up thinking that type of treatment is ok! Think of your girls being treated like that…how does that make you feel?

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Please leave…it will only escalate. It’s already abuse. Please trust us…

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If he wont stay sober for his family totally not worth staying put ur kids first and run

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RUNNNN!!! As fast as you can!!!

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You got 2 choices, kill his ass or leave.

Run!
Don’t walk away.
Run!

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Please believe us RUN!!! I grew up watching my mom get her ass beat all the time… I will NEVER put up with any of it from any man

I would talk to him when sober and let him know how your feeling and that it’s effecting your relationship, the kids, family, friends etc. (Go into details). Give him the ultimatum to go for help, aa, counselling etc. Or you have to do what’s best for yourself and your kids, leave. If he doesn’t get help or conunites to relapse I agree with the above, leave.

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Leave him. It only gets worse

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Leave him or go to counseling.

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If he can’t get help for his drinking then leave. You need to show your daughters that you love them and yourself more than to have to deal with that situation. All three of you are worth more than that kind of treatment. God bless you :pray:t4:

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Leave.
It doesn’t get better, it gets worse. And you have 2 very young, impressionable girls watching. Do NOT let them grow up thinking that this is how men ate supposed to treat women!!

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Get the hell away from him he’s a monster have you ever heard sober man’s thoughts are a drunk man’s words he has no respect for you and it’ll only get worse I know I went through the same thing don’t wait 30 years get gone soon as you can get rid of him you’ll be okay in time

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