My husband gets upset anytime that I go near his phone: Advice?

My husband freaks out and gets very angry if I go near his phone. He actually hides it! Clearly, he is hiding something; something he is doing must be awful! He says it’s just none of my business, and I’m annoying. What do I do?

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Get an std test right away. Then confront him, and let him know that you felt the need to check yourself out because of his sneaking around.

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Get the app and go onto the “use” part and find out what’s up. Or accidentally drop it in water or run it over

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1st thing to do is come to terms with the fact that hes cheating…
Speaking from someone who has been there and done that

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Ok so when someone gets pissed off or upset when you go near their phones it is big red flag if the person wasn’t hiding anything then they wouldn’t being acting like an ass

Wow if that isnt the biggest red flag ever i dont know what is!!! Girl leave him

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Wait till he leaves it laying around and look in it. Sounds like he’s hiding something

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The man has to shower and sleep at some point. Take his phone then and confirm your suspicions :woman_shrugging:t3:

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If my husband did that. My sneaky side would come out and check his phone sooner than later.

Why is this even a question? Leave him!

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Walk away!

I often grab my husbands without relaxing it’s his

Same phone case

Not once has he asked what I am doing just laughs

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:triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post: wait until he’s asleep & have a look :woman_shrugging:

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Punch him in the nuts and steal his phone. :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Get your affairs in order and ready to bounce. Confront him about his shady behavior and the first time he raises his voice just walk away.

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Don’t go looking if you don’t want to find what you probably already suspect. Trust your gut.

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I would be willing to bet he is A either cheating or B having some inappropriate text or messages either way he is cheating it doesn’t start with sex it starts with sneaky conversation lol from experience he is definitely up to NO DAMN GOOD GIRL PACK HIS BAGS DO NOT GIVE HIM WARNING DO NOT GIVE HIM TIME TO DELETE ANYTHING I WOULD TELL HIM EITHER I LOOK AT YOUR PHONE NOW OR HEREZ YOUR SHIT PACKED FOR YA SORRY NOT SORRY

Could just be porn. Not necessarily cheating. Maybe convos with a friend he doesnt want you to see. Out of respect for the friend. My husband will ask me what me and my bestie are discussing. Sometimes I tell him. Sometimes it’s none of his business and I’ll say nothing g that concerns you. Because my friend is entitled to privacy. He understands and that’s it.

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Try to unknowing find out his password (if you don’t know it already), then take it in his sleep and look. Or give him an ultimatum tell him to tell you or show you what’s going on or leave. I’ve been there more than once and always found what I suspected. Trust yourself.

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Tell him to hand over his phone and be honest… or pack his bags and leave…

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Grab it and run to the bathroom. He freaks he’s cheating.

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