My husband invited people over without asking me: Advice?

Can you please post. I have been working for the last two weeks with no days off. I have not seen my 5 years except to pick her up from her grandparents and put her to be when I get home. I finally got a day off and was planning on spending it with her and getting caught up on housework. My husband invited friends to the house without asking me. The husband is coming over to help my husband and help him do some work. My husband said it’s not right to get the guy to come over and help without asking the wife to come and hang out with me. But I’m upset because if the friends come over they are going to bring their kids and my daughter is not going to spend time with me. Am I wrong for being upset that my husband didn’t ask?

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I think he should have asked and let you know. Especially if you had planned to spend it with your daughter. Next time, I would let him know ahead of time your plans and tell him to ask you/let you know his plans as well.

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I think he should have talked to you about it. Everyday my husband and I discuss what I want to do today and what he wants to do today and figure out our plan for the day. Sometimes we even ask each other the day before like hey what do you think we should do tomorrow.

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I Don’t think you’re wrong at all. It is a matter of respect and consideration. My boyfriend of a year has had to learn this about me. It was a bit of a struggle, but he gets it now. He seems worried about leaving the friends wife out, but not about your feelings… that would not fly with me.

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Did he know that’s what you had planned? If not how was he supposed to know that wasn’t ok? Although, I would think he should ask, obviously, if he’s including you in these plans. I would say letting him know that going forward you would like a heads up would be a good idea.

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You do the same … girls movie night

I.mean he could have asked but it’s not worth fighting over. You can still have the whole evening and night to spend with your daughter.

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Next time tell him your leaving the house for the day if he does this again

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Your husband lives there also and he is an adult. He really doesn’t need to ask He just should notify you that people are coming over.

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He was way out of line no need for the wife to tag along tell him you had already made plans let him deal with it

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Communication…when he said this you should have said sorry but im busy youll have to keep them both occupied now

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If you did not tell him your plans why dose he have to tell you his? He wanted help with stuff I think you are over reacting

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My husband and I always check with each other before we invite people over. We may have had something planned, we may not be in the mood to entertain, or literally any other reason.
You share a home and should share the decision.

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Yes he could of asked …he probably wasn’t even thinking. Not fight worthy at all . He was probably just doing something that you always do . The wife comes with his friend .

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He’s not a mind reader u gotta spell things out and why don’t u take your daughter and go somewhere u can do what u want to do right

He probably should have asked, but it’s not worth a fight.

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Wow to some of these comments …poor guy . Hes your husband not your child . Next Time speak up , communicate .

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I understand your frustration. I really do.
But make the most of it and allow yourself to enjoy the time and make memories. Find an activity to do with the kids and you moms.
Take pics
Laugh
Relax

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I would say if you had plans be sure to let him know ahead of time. Men don’t read minds worth crap. He probably just didn’t think it was a big deal. Both of you need to be communicating

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