My husband is on a lot of hookup sites: Advice?

My husband is on a lot of hookup sites. He swears someone hacked his email, but I know it is him. A friend said it is a way to get him turned on so he can be intimate with me, but that made me feel like I’m not what he wants. So I lost weight and started wearing makeup daily, I dress sexier now, but he is still on them. Last night I found a love sex cam open on his phone while he was in the shower; we don’t have a sex life anymore, like twice a month is a big deal to him. He said he is older and doesn’t want it anymore. I just feel like I’m in for a major disappointment.

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It isnt about you, its about him honey

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Leave.

There is nothing you can do. Nothing you should do. Just leave.

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Open the door and kick his ass out it… there is not a single person who has the right to make you feel unwanted!!

Since you aren’t going to change him, give him a dose of his own medicine.

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The goddess living inside of you can give you more than any man you ever dreamed of. Let go of him and start loving yourself. Live your best life

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Get a lawyer. Protect yourself

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My ex also told me that his email got hacked. Found out he cheated multiple times. Don’t fall for it

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Leave, sounds like he’s looking for someone else.

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Leave. If he doesn’t want you for you- fuck that. Leave and be a better person without him

When you go grocery shopping…pull out cash and start stashing money…then leave when you get the chance!

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Love, Sex , Intelligence says

Sounds like a closet sex addiction to me. Bounce girl, get someone who will value you

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Being alone is better than being unhappy.

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Yup… its for sure him, and by no means you. I’d take this as a red flag… either get therapy together or leave for your own mental health

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Mine said someone stole his info and took a picture of him while he was alone at home in our bedroom and posted it on one of those sites. We’re divorced now

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I know it’s probably easier said than done but I think you either need marriage counseling or you should leave if he won’t…that sounds like sex addiction even if he doesn’t want it with you my ex was the same way…

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My husband has an extremely high sex drive. We have been married for 23 years and we have sex about 2 x s a week. He is seeing a therapist and she suggested we have an open marriage. Talk about defeated. I have been trying so hard to be what he wants and now I am just defeated and feel awful about myself.

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This has nothing to do with you. You are not the “problem”. HE IS. Get yourself a lawyer, take pictures of his phone with the dating sites/screen shots whatever you can.

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Sis go live your life and cut the dead weight loose

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