My husband keeps in contact with his ex: Do I have a right to be upset?

I found out my husband stayed in contact with his ex-girlfriend of 8 years. I met him a few years ago, and after talking to him about how it made me feel that they still talked, he told me he would cut her off. Well, come to find out, they meet every few months to have lunch and “catch up.” Do I have a right to be upset? They have no kids and have no reason to keep in touch…

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You absolutely do because he lied about not being in contact with her

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You do because you had a previous conversation about it!

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Omg!!! Just went thru this…run!!!

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He lied and has been secretly meeting this person. You have every right to be upset.

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Of course. That’s not okay.

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Yes you do. You were clear how you felt. Even if you were being unreasonable it caused you doubt and fear. He told you it would stop. Therefore he chose their “friendship” over your relationship.

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Yes you do because he lied about it! But if you trust him, you shouldn’t worry about his ex. He should make you feel secure! Just my opinion! :woman_shrugging:

I HATE TO SAY IT… But he’s cheating. Sorry. He has no business with this woman. He clearly still has feelings for her.

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Why lie about it. Hmnnn

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If he kept it a secret, they’re doing more than just lunch :upside_down_face:

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Ultimately when it comes down to it he chose her over you.

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Kick him to the curb now!!! He lied and was sneaking around with an ex.

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Yeah, I’m with you on this one. That’s uncomfortable, you already told him he said he’d quit but still does it. There’s an attachment there that I personally wouldn’t trust.

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I am in contact with all of my Xs…when I hear from them, I come home and tell my husband…its called trust and communication.

You absolutely do, he lied, and is meeting her. And you’ve shared your opinion on it.

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He’s a liar and a cheater.Dump him.

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Bail if they had kids ok then If they keep peace say I g hello o. The streets but meet g n lunch u deserve better

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I am still really good friends with a guy I dated years ago. We just realized that we were better off as friends. There has to be trust and that would include having certain ex’s as friends but with that being said… The guy lied so yeah there is probably more going on there than just pure friendship between them. Walk away because he has just proved what kind of person he is!

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File for a divorce asap its more than lunch