My husband told me he isn't in love with me anymore: Thoughts?

Well, I just want to say I’m so beyond heartbroken right now; my husband of 14 years told me he isn’t in love with me anymore. I have no idea what happened we argue, but I seriously thought we were both happy.i do not want to lose him :sob:

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Girl go get the D!

And by D i mean DIVORCE

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Hes cheating on you. Get a copy of phone records and a lawyer ASAP.

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Maybe couples counseling but if he doesn’t feel that would benefit and is set in his decisions I would suggest talking to a divorce attorney.

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There’s nothing you can do…

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Yeah it could possibly be he’s cheating and there’s someone else in picture… Hope you heal and find your peace after this heartbreak …who knows maybe you’ll find yourself happier that way.

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I’m so sorry I have been with my husband 14 years now to but if that’s what he wants you have to give it to him. I’m so sorry but it’s the truth

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I was with my husband for 33 yrs as you grow older and wiser as of age the heart changes.

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The thing is is you can’t make people love you no matter how hard you try work on loving yourself through it you will find strength that you never knew you had good luck to you

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He’s definitely cheating. That’s what happened to me.

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Going through the same thing.

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Did I miss something? Why are people certain he cheated?

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Grow apart sometimes if not cheating

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Leave him, love yourself, take care of yourself and never look back you deserve better

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This does not mean hes cheating dang! People grow apart

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Maybe remind him love is not physical. Get a councillor or priest or whatever. Sometimes people just need to be reminded why they got married. If he is cheating he needs to realize a relationship is a daily decision that needs to be worked at. No matter what woman he is with life is not greener on the other side

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I am so sorry your having to go through this, someone will always love you. Please keep that in mind. The works I don’t love you anymore is devastatingly!

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You can’t make someone love you, that’s the tough part as hard as it sounds it’s time to move on

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Sometimes loving someone is letting them go. My husband and I have been married for almost 19 years… through rough parts of his marriage I have always given him an out. I would never want to force someone to stay with me if they didn’t love me. There is someone out there that can give you the love you deserve. Wishing you the best of luck. :blue_heart:

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Dr. Laura’s audio of “the proper care and feeding of husbands”

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