My husband works out of town: Thoughts?

My husband/partner (we are not married yet) of 9 years admitted to me that he has multiple sex partners, all of these are his coworkers. He’s working in Canada for three years now, and I’m stuck here in our country with our 5yr old daughter. All those three years that he’s away, I thought that our long-distance relationship is working, you know we always call each other, we always chat, and I can feel that he’s faithful. But recently he’s been so close to his female coworker, they always go out just the two of them. Now I am the one begging for his time. I trusted him because he said that they were just friends. Until one day, I got so angry because even on a day off, they are together hanging out. We barely have time to talk because he’s always with his coworker. That’s when he confessed to me that they are having an affair, he said that they were fuck buddies. He also said that he had sex with his other coworkers. I’m so devastated. He said that he could not change, and that’s the way he is now. But he said that he’s afraid of losing our child and me, that he still wants to marry me and take us there to Canada. I’m so angry and confused. But I’m afraid to leave him because he’s so vulnerable right now and maybe leaving him will destroy his life completely. I can feel that he needs my support more than ever, but as days go by, I can feel my sanity slipping away. Please help me.

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Leave him & don’t look back once a cheater always a cheater !

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Girl… you are a fool if you marry this idiot, you are a fool for feeling “afraid” for him. Omg I can’t even with you. Cut him off immediately!

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Why Are you making excuses for him? He’s vulnerable? It’ll tear him Apart? Girl he wasn’t thinking of that when he was fucking those hoes! He want thinking of yalls little family when he was cheating! Why do you give a shit about his feelings? I’d get off he cheated and he wanted to work it out and stop the bullshit but he’s told you he won’t stop so move on!

He isnt doing anything but using u…keep away from him

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Leave him :clap:t3::clap:t3::clap:t3::clap:t3::clap:t3::clap:t3:

drop that jerk like a bad habit… remember he messed up and cheated not you… Reserve yourself for a real man… because apparently he’s not worth you… !!!:100::100::100::100::100::100::100::100:

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Find a man who will be there and appreciate you! You don’t need this. You can have phone calls with someone else, better yet! Have them braid you in person :heart:

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Trust me, you are not going to destroy his life…he is destroying his life and your own. Do you want your child to grow up and think this behavior is ok? You deserve to have someone who appreciates you and makes time for you and your child…not beg for their attention.

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Vulnerable my ass. KIck him to the curb and let his girlfriends pick up the pieces of trash.

Girl… He wasn’t having an affair… He was having a relationship and your his side family… He has an entire other life in Canada… Leave him. Let him see his child, but you need to be your own woman and find a man at home who will love you and not use you.

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LEAVE he obviously don’t give a fuck

Wave good bye find someone that will love u how u deserve to be

Leave…unless you want a std.
You deserve better than that loser. You dont want tou child thinking that’s how a woman should be treated

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🤦🤦🤦🤦 unless you are satisfied as being his option stay . The man is lying . He can’t have his cake and eat it to…unless you let him. I say run and never look back . Eventually you’ll find someone who will only want you and you only

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Are you nuts. Run away. He is not worth your time.

Fuck him and his vulnerability!!

Open relationships are a thing… go get you some girl… maybe you’ll find someone worth your time and it wont be so scary to leave

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Put his bitch ass on child support and find someone who deserves you

Leave. Now, you will regret it later if you don’t leave right now