My husbands friend made an inappropriate comment about me: Advice?

I am continually having arguments with my husband over this as it’s made me feel cheap and dirty. So, we asked a friend of my husbands to help us with a report we needed to put together for court; we offered to pay him for his time… he declined the money by saying (while the call was on Bluetooth speaker and my 5yr old in the car) “you don’t have to pay me, your wife can give me a blow job.” We were shocked by what was said, but my husband 6months on continues to talk to this guy. His friend is not married and continually says he wishes he was and with kids.

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He is a man, that is their humor.

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sounds like a joke. My husband had a co worker ask him if he could marry me :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Well he’s not gonna have kids by getting blow jobs :rofl::woman_shrugging:t2:

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Just let it go. I laughed when I read it. Sounds like a joke

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That is disgusting and degrading. Your feelings are valid. Tell him “you are making me uncomfortable” whenever he makes remarks like that. Don’t just “let it go”.

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I would have let him have it right then and there. “It” being an earfull. I would have went the fuck off.

Just, eww.
That’s no friend.
How disgustingly disrespectful!

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Some people just don’t have filters. Just let it go.

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Your husband would/ should be the one to tell his friend that was out of line.

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My husband would lose his mind

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I would tell him yourself that you didn’t appreciate that at all and that your offended and he needs to never speak to you or about you like that again

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What do you want to happen? Your husband no longer being friends with him? Sounds like a joke. Just let him know you dont like being joked around with like that. I would have made a smart comment back if it was me lol

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Next time reply with “you wish” laugh it off, even take it as a compliment? , x

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:joy::joy:
It’s rude but pretty damn funny too
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Sounds like men talking. Pretty normal shit for me to hear. Doesn’t even bother me. If it makes you uncomfortable just say so. Definitely sounded like an joke though.

I know it was a stupid gross joke but that all it was. If he says something like that again tell him you’re not comfortable with him talking about you like that.

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Sounds like 2 guys talking and joking tell both of them you don’t appreciate or approve that, and let it go

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Just relax. Smoke a blunt and chill and let your husband have some damn fun .get off his and his friends back. Stop driving peaple away by your own insecurities. Lighten up

I laughed too. He’s a jackass but baby that was funny. Just never give him one