My MIL wants to take my kids out of town but it makes me uncomfortable: Thoughts?

Can you post please?? so just need some opinions. I’m married, but my husband no longer in the picture. He went to prison and will be there for a very long time. He’s an only child. Well, my mother in law scares me with how fake she seems to be. She and my husband’s older kids are a mom who is very close. I’ve always respected her(my mother n law) until this past year. She’s done some shady shit to me. That’s including stuff involving the other mom. Anyways recently, we got into it over her wanting to take 2 of my kids out of town. At the same time as my husband’s older kids and where the other mom is. I told her no, I wasnt.comfortable with it. I just feel like what the both done to me in the past and her taking my kids now just isn’t sitting well with me. Well, she blew up and defended the other mom. The other mom and I have had some words this past year, and it wasn’t good. So Isk I just feel like she could be mean to my kids, and my mother n law would allow it. Idk I honestly just would rather have nothing to do with all of them. Need opinions…help, please.

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No is a complete sentence.

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I wouldn’t allow it, either.

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i wouldnt allow my kids to go

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Regardless of any back story, if you’re uncomfortable with it, you can say no with no explanation.

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I wouldnt allow it all. And you do not need to keep ties with these people cut them out of your life.

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YOU are the mom. If you aren’t comfortable with it then don’t allow it.

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Go by your momma gut! If your gut says no then go with that! Only you know what is best for your children!

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You’re kids your choice! Always trust your gut momma :heart:

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Always trust ur mom gut if it feels off it probably is…

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No is the only answer you need to give.

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If your gut is saying not to then you are their mother and what you says goes simple… x

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Don’t do it if you’re not comfortable with plain and simple

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As the children’s mother of you are not comfortable with it then I would not allow them to go. She doesn’t have to like it one bit.

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Why are you even asking this question? They are your children not hers, it’s your choice

Say no just no, it’s not up to her she can fuck off

You have no obligation to even let her see them much less take them out of town.

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You’re their mom. If you don’t like it, don’t do it.

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I’m usually the odd man out. But I’m even saying no. The end.

If in doubt, don’t do it!! I wouldn’t be letting my kids go with anyone if I had doubts about the way in which they would be treated. Your the mum, so if there’s even one​:point_up: doubt in your head, don’t let them go :+1:

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