My mom constantly eats the food that I buy for my son and I: Advice?

I’m currently staying with my mother, and I pay my way and also have to buy my own food for my son and me. Constantly my mom keeps eating our food, eating my son’s bread that he has for breakfast and lunch. I’ve asked her to stop unless she gives me money towards groceries, and I’ll buy for us all, but she won’t and still continues to eat our food. Need advice, please

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Lock your food up.
Or find somewhere else to stay.
You’ll never get her to respect you and just quit if you’ve already asked and she hasn’t stopped.

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If you’ve spoken to her already it’s time to find a new living arrangement! If that’s absolutely not possible, keep your food locked

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Buy some and hide it

That’s bull shit hide ur food

Keep what you can in your room and get a lock for the door… even a mini fridge? Cheaper than moving out immediately.

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Buy a container and put your food in it in your room

Eat her food back :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Have you labeled your items in the pantry/ or fridge…?
With your name/& or son’s name it can help.&
Kindly ask her if she wants to grocery shop together

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Get yr own dorm fridge

Get a small fridge & a lock on your bedroom door…hide it there …unless you can move.

Buy something gross and tell her NEVER to eat it🤷‍♀️

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Omg i would gladly share anything with my mother, wtf :woman_facepalming:t2:

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Seriously it’s your mother?!:exploding_head:

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That’s a tough one. Maybe a specific shelf for y’alls stuff or keep most of it in your room. When I had to live at home we (kids and i) had 1 shelf in the pantry, 1 in the fridge & 1/2 of 1 drawer in the fridge

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Why not just buy food for the house? Maybe the cost of you and yours being there costs her so much she cant afford food? Share.

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She is eating the baby’s food!!!

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Put a pantry in your room or move out.
I can’t imagine living with anyone other than my hubby and kids. I’d go crazy!

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Her house her pantry, that’s the least u could do

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How many times over the course of your lifetime has your mom bought food for herself and let you eat it all…more than you probably ever know.

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