My mom has been contacting me and sending me photos of me and my ex: Advice?

I need some serious advice. I don’t ever reach out to anyone… I’m just so stressed out and tired of it. I haven’t spoken to my mother in almost a year because of her being a drug addict, toxic, and in a relationship with a sex offender. She literally lives across the world from me but decided today was the day to call me private over 100 times while I was at work until I answered. Now she’s sending me old pictures of my ex-boyfriend and me, which doesn’t matter because I’ve been married for four years, acting as if she’s going to post it online or holding it over my head. I have no idea what to do anymore. I called the cops in her area to tell her to leave me alone. I don’t know what to do anymore.

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Block her, and change ur settings so u cannot rec blocked/private calls

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Block her on everything her number on Facebook block calls from private numbers.

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Block her…my moms blocked for the same reason.

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Block private calls or get a different phone number. Sounds like the only way to not be bothered by her by phone.

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Block her from everything.
Change your number.
Make a new Facebook under a new email with a different name/nickname.

Inform your husband of what the psycho is doing.

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Change social media names to a nickname (if she makes another account it will make it harder for her to find your profile) and block her account. Block her on all social platforms and mobile number. If you have to, go to the extreme of changing your number. And if any of your family still talk to her, put them on restricted viewing through social media and tell them that if they give your new number to her, you will take legal action against them (they are enabling her to abuse and blackmail you and law enforcement very much don’t like blackmail little own harassment.)

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Sounds like she may still be using drugs

No one should ever block your Mother or disrespect her in any way.

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You can help by taking her and advicing her to seek help is not about cutting people out. She is your mum and bought you to the world

You have no idea what this mum has done so you can’t say that Linda Bradley sometimes a parent does things that you can never forgive them for it’s awful to say but it’s true

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I am sorry but I think she needs help my Mother would never have done that to me.

Restraining order and block her.

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Why haven’t you blocked her yet? Seems like that would have been your first step.

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Change your number and have it unlisted.

Try to take away whatever “reward” she gets from this bad behavior. Tell her she can do what she decides, because you are not responsible for her actions. Focus on yourself and your family. SET BOUNDARIES and keep her at a distance!

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Block her from your phone if you need to. Block her on your social media. Then just let it go. You can’t control her or what she does, so don’t wear yourself out trying. It sounds like you’re good with your life as it is, so just be done. Hugs to you.

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Tell her not to contact you and block her. If she uses a different number, block it.

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Is she serious about posting them or is she trying to bribe you for money? You say she is a drug addict, so it wouldn’t surprise me if that’s what it is for. I would ignore her, block and continue with your life, unless you think the photos ccould do some harm?

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If she can’t push her threats then she can’t collect ransom. Whatever she may publish, it won’t reflect that badly onto you. Not allowing her abuse is a kind act. Do whatever it takes to ride it out without engaging in the drama.

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