My sister told me my daughter isn't disciplined: Please help!

I had my sister babysit my daughter for 2 hours while I was working. I started getting a text that my daughter is a brat and is throwing tantrums and that I need to get her not so attached to her dad and me. And that I need to discipline her. My daughter is 11 months old and doesn’t understand much. I don’t believe in hitting my children. I do tell her no when she’s doing something wrong. What more can I do? How do you discipline an 11-month-old BABY? She’s just so attached, and she wants to be held all the time. She sometimes does the crying trick to get her way. I need help i don’t want to be told my child is a brat. That’s the worst feeling. I’m doing what I can. It’s so hard when her dad works night shifts he has to sleep most of the day to rest for work again. I work when he’s off or home.

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Omg she isn’t even a year old. Shame on your sister.

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Tell your sister to shut up

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Tell your sister to go fuck herself.
Your child isn’t even 1 yet.

You are the parent, tell her what you think! 11 month old babies communicate by crying & the require you to show them you will be there for her needs. Screw what your sister thinks, you are the parent. You do what your baby needs, not what others think.

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I second that. Tell your sister to shut up!

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Shes 11months old… find a new sitter your sister is nuts

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That’s outrageous, she’s only 11 months

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Your sister sucks :woman_shrugging:t3:

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My one year old is needy. There’s a difference between a child being a brat and being needy. Sounds like your little girl just wants mama and daddy and there’s nothing wrong with that! Especially at the age she is, she’s going through it and learning that she can’t always have you guys around. That doesn’t make her a brat! That makes her a baby/toddler.

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Your sister is a brat.

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That’s pretty typical behavior for an 11 month old

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I take it your sister doesnt have kids?

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The problem is your sister, not your kid. If someone needs discipline it’s her. Shame on her!

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Shes 11 months old…they’re all undisciplined at that age ALLLLLL the way till 18 when you can throw your hands up and go ‘NOT MY CIRCUS ANYMORE!’ :joy:
She sounds like a bitch, no more babysitting for her then.

Is your sister even a Mom? I doubt it

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Tell your sister she is the brat. That is absurd!

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Your sister doesn’t deserve to baby sit your child if she is going to say things like that

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Does ur sister even have kids😂 I’m gonna go ahead and say no. Don’t have her babysit anymore, sounds like my sister always throwing her opinion out when it’s not even accurate.

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Pick her up, hug her, and here is the most important bit. Don’t put her down untill she turns 5.

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