My SO has been talking to another female behind my back: Thoughts?

Anonymous, please. So my S/O and I have been together for four years. We broke up late 2018 due to him talking to another girl online. Basically, he was confiding in her more than me and talking crap about me to her. When I confronted him about it, I told him to choose between her and I. He ended up choosing her, and we broke up. We recently got back together May of last year, and we’re expecting a baby boy this April. I found out yet again that he was talking to her. One of the conditions to us getting back together was for him to delete the server, which he talked to her and not talk to her ever again. He left his twitter open, and I saw him communicating with her again. Their conversations had nothing negative against me this time, but it’s the fact that he went behind my back and did it again after I told him not too. We’re about to start a family, and I honestly don’t know what to do. Am I overreacting?

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It’s best too leave him and be done he’s done it once he will continue too do it

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Be done with him sis. Just be done.

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This will continue to be a problem. You need to separate ways and focus on co-parenting.

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Of course you know what to do. You did it the 1st time and slipped off your ground. Leave. Don’t take him back. He does not respect you. He would never have chosen someone else otherwise. How could you ever expect to be first in his life at this point?

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Not over reacting. I’d be done. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.

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No you are not overreacting!!! He broke a promise to you! This is disrespectful and wrong. Confront him.

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What everyone else said. You should’ve been done from the second he cheated, then he chose her. He’s still choosing her.

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He has no respect for you. Leave him. And please learn to love yourself enough to know your worth.

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Let go move on. He will be cheating on you with her. Again

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He only does it because he was getting away with it. He’ll only learn when you walk away for good, maybe. But you gave him a fair chance. You will find better.

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This is to much fuck him. .he doesn’t love you he did it once . He stopped and here he is doing it again ? He doesn’t care about you or your feelings at all 100 :100: real he doesn’t care . You deserve better

You need to keep it moving.

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Be done w/ his ass. He obviously doesn’t respect you or the relationship

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Just leave that man ain’t gunna change if he had any respect that wouldn’t have even happened the first time

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Sorry to say…once a cheater always a cheater😩Should’ve quit while you were ahead🙌

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“…yet again…” should be your clue!

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Dumb… why you go back to man who pick a chick OVER YOU.

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He does not respect you. Get out now before the baby is born. Maybe you can coparent well but you do not need to be with someone who cares so little about you

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Just curious. Why did you get back with him? Sounds like he was, is and always will be scum. He clearly doesn’t respect you at all, especially with him talking bad about you to this girl. Just because on the message you saw they weren’t talking about you doesn’t mean it’s not still happening.

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