My SO hasn't been very supportive during my pregnancy: Advice?

I am in my third trimester, and my SO hasn’t been very supportive through this pregnancy. Anytime I talk about how I feel, he automatically puts me down and tells me that I’m dramatic. The other night he called me the C-word, and that I was the worst thing that has ever happened to him. And all I tried to do was explain to him how I was feeling, but anytime I try he becomes irate and cannot hold a civil conversation. Should I leave now, or wait it out? He told me if I left, he would never have anything to do with me or our child.

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Sounds like that would be for the best if you left

Bye Bye. Dont want that around your child.

Ugh leave, your child would be better off.

He doesn’t deserve you or that precious babe

Leave now how toxic not good to be in

Leave now. It’s harder to do with a baby in tow

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He wants you to leave. Just be done and save yourself a ton of grief.

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Run! Good that he will willfully remove himself and the abuse from you and your child!

You want to be put down and shut out moving forward? Leave, it’ll be better for you and your child

LEAVE
Dont look back

LEAVE don’t put him on birth certificate.

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Leave … My ex was like that and things got so much worse to the point I’m in a domestic violence safe house… He’s not going to change

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If he’s willing to abandon you and the baby if you leave, it’s very clear that he’s manipulative and not parent material. On top of that he’s emotionally abusing you. Get out of there

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Leave for your child’s sake. This is heartbreaking and you deserve so much better. There are good men out there. Don’t settle for this jerk.

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Lol girl he should have made that decision for you when he said he would not have anything to do with you… he seems very toxic and controlling :running_woman:t2::running_woman:t2::running_woman:t2:

Omg leave!!! Hopefully he holds up to his word

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Girl, sounds like you would have a better chance at a peaceful life with your baby without him. Leave now and consider it a blessing that you can leave now rather than later. Know your worth! Don’t subject that innocent baby to that kind of abuse.

Leave, it will only get worse after your child is born.
He is showing you his “true colors”

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I would leave. It honestly sounds like he doesn’t give a crap about you or your baby and it sounds like you and the baby deserve so much better and if he wants no part in your child’s life then good he doesn’t deserve to be the way he treats you