Should I be concerned with my daugthers beahvior?

My daughter will turn 3 July of this year. She and I have always given each other pecks on the cheek or lip, but that’s it, and she’s seen her father, and I give each other a quick peck on the lips, but that’s it. Recently, she’s begun trying to grab me in a weird way and kiss me with her mouth open, like French kissing, and she’s very insistent about it. She puts her hands on my face, tilts her head, acts like an adult would. I don’t know how seeing somebody kiss on tv could even show her to behave exactly this way. This is the only weird behavior she’s had, and she is only around her father, who she adores and doesn’t act uncomfortable with at all. I’m scared, and I just don’t know what to think…opinions? Had this happened to anybody? Do you think it’s possible she saw French kissing on television?

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How much TV does she watch?

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My 5 year old does this it’s ok

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No I feel likes it’s a common thing for young kids to do once they see it. TV, movies, sitters if she’s seeing someone else do it that’s why.

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She’s THREE and you don’t know what she’s watching on tv?? Ask her “who kisses like that” and see what she says

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I think it’s possible that it is from tv. My son is 3 and he copies everything he sees on TV and off. Remember their brains are like little sponges.

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Personally I think ur looking way into it she is 2 3 in july… All Kids Do this?? I wouldnt Look to much into it!

She could’ve seen it on tv or even in public :woman_shrugging:t4:

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Kids see that people who love each other do it in the movies or on tv and they try to emulate it. I remember doing this as a small child to my poor mother, as did my sister AND my brother. And we were very sheltered children. Both of my kids went through it. Not a reason to panic. Just pull away and tell her that is how she will one day kiss the person she marries, not how you kiss anyone else. That will make sense and she will stop.

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My sons 2.5 and just recently started doing this too. I always grab is cheeks when I give him a kiss and he tries to stick his tongue out and stuff . I just redirect and him tell him no , we do t give kisses like that and he stops he does it often though , I think I ts just a phase.

Maybe somebody is kissing her like that-maybe she saw it on tv. My opinion, kiss on jaw or forehead

My kids have all done this at this

Simply ask her who showed you to kiss with your mouth open and go from there

Keep an eye on that and tell her only adults kiss like that

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Some days my kids (5 + 2) give me a mooch normal. Some days they try and eat my face🤷

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My dtr went through that stage :woman_shrugging:t3:

Got a daughter the same age. She recently decided kissing her parents was lame and instead licks us. Kids are weird creatures, but I’m sure it’s fine!

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I think more enquiries should be made. My 5 yr old best friend had 1 sleep over and after my daughter was asleep I had to console her friend for over an hour. When I finally put her next to my daughter hoping she would fall asleep I saw her trying to French kiss my daughter while she was asleep. I think conversation need to happen with behaviors like this doesn’t matter the age, it about the actions not ages.

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My son did this for a little bit. When i started to kiss him back like this he would get grossed out. Now he doesnt do it anymore lol

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My 10 month old does this after watching Casablanca with me. 🤷 It’s totally possible for a 3 year old to have seen this and start imitating too.

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