Should I celebrate fathers day with my boyfriend?

My boys want to do something special for my boyfriend for fathers day. We have been together for almost two years. He is so good with the boys; they have a great bond. He has stepped up and been more of a father (a lot more) than their bio dad (he isn’t in the picture). They adore him. Part of me is like it’s too soon; he may freak out, lol. The other part of me is like, aww, that’s sweet.

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I don’t see the issue. He is their father figure by the sounds of it

Not too soon… I’m sure he would love it.

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Explain to him that he’s been a great father figure to your kids and you feel like he should be celebrated on this day.

Definitely not too soon ! :heart:I promise you it will mean the world to him ! My fiancé has been in my daughters life since she was 1 and he brags about her like she’s his! I got his a Father’s Day gift after a year because he showed he was there for her :heart: it’s been 11 years now and that’s his baby girl :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

Where tf are the nails?!?!

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Do they call him dad? If so, then sure! If he’s called by his name then make it into a “So and So’s Day”?

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How old are the children? That will give me an idea on how to answer.

Celebrate and make sure bf knows ur children wanted to do somethin special for him!! :heart:

Let them plan it all. That way it’s coming from them and not you pushing it on ur bf. Although I’m sure hes totally gonna love it

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U can get “like a dad” or “someone special” cards now so u can still celebrate without it being so “daddy” if that makes sense

Woulda thought u’d have done it the first year,but yea if the kids love him then u should all celebrate it. Deff not too soon if he’s been there taking care of them this whole time,he seems to deserve a Thank You day :two_hearts:

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If ur boyfriend stepped up and been there for ur kids for the last 2 yrs then I dont see why u can’t celebrate and show him how much they love him my kids get there stepdad stuff to show him how much they care and he loves it xx

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Let the boys make that choice. If they feel like they want to. Let them. :woman_shrugging:t2: I’m sure you plan on being with this man for a while. It’s been 2 years. Which means the kids will see him as a father figure regardless…

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I think its to early for me personally. But everyone dosent seem to think so. So you just need to do what you want :slight_smile:

Coming from the boys will be a great gift. Your boyfriend will like it.

What does this have to do with nails??? :woman_facepalming::roll_eyes::unamused:

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Ask yr bf if it’s kool with him I’m sure he won’t mind

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Don’t think of it like you’re doing it for him, you children want to do it for him. He will probably be more excepting and appreciative than you think :slightly_smiling_face:

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