Should I get married or move on?

My fiancé of 2 years has been trying to contact an ex-girlfriend over and over again. By that, I mean asking her for her number via Facebook every few months and trying to talk on the phone with her, which he has accomplished a few times catching up with her. This has happened so many times that she had to block him this most recent time and sent me the screenshots of him asking for her number yet again and saying that he promises he won’t be caught. (I don’t know why she decided to come to tell me this specific time when all the other times I had to find out and she laughed at me and told me that she owed me nothing) but anyways, I took our toddler and left him, but he begged for me to come back saying that it was just another mistake and said that that girl was his friend for five years. I was so insulted by that and everything and I’m so tired of this that I’m always afraid that it’s going to happen again. He’s had to change his number a total of 5 times because she gets his number every time. Is this even worth continuing into a marriage or just let the whole thing go and move on with my life??

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I would move on. There are red flags everywhere and you deserve so much better!

Hmmmmm…she “gets” his number…or he GIVES it to her?

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These red flags will be the same reason you end up divorcing him later, dont put yourself through that.

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Move on. It’s going to continue. If he respected you and your relationship, he wouldn’t be contacting an ex over and over…

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Run for the hills cheaters don’t change. You deserve more

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Be glad you’re seeing this red flag now and leave.

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“Just another mistake”:triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post:
Kick him to the curb

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Sounds like you already know the answer. You already left.

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He is pursuing her harder than you. Run!

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Let it go. Run like hell. He’s a cheating peace of cray

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Didn’t read it all but leave you keep saying how he acts and idk girl are you blind?

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Leave and do NOT go back. If it is not her, their will be others. You will get nothing but a heartbreak over and over again.

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Move on.to many red flags

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Move on! Big red flag if he can’t leave an ex alone now he won’t when you are married! Or might try that with someone else. Sorry sweetie!

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Nope, you need to leave mama. Clearly he keeps doing and doing it without no regard. You’re nobody’s option and you deserve better but you’ll never find that staying with him.

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You already know the answer.

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Run. Not worth the heartbreak later on

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Girl move on with your life where you can be happy.

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Move on. Marriage won’t change that behavior.

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