Should I have to ask my husband for simple things?

You can’t do any of this yourself because…?:thinking:

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And just like that, all the feminists had a heart attack

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As a women that also has two hands I assume , what’s wrong with you, why can’t you do it yourself.

Did you discuss this chore beforehand or did you jist decide it’s his job without telling him.

Rather talk to him and then discuss it, chances are he does not realise its a him thing

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Just ask sis…lol he can’t read minds. And it sounds like you just expect him to be a robot

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You sound dramatic clean it off or ask for help it’s not that hard. Unless your sick or pregnant you should be be able to handle it

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As a grown adult. You should either 1. ASK for help or 2. Do it yourself.
I get the other stuff but if it is your car and you are driving that’s your responsibility not his.

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Grow up and be an adult and do it yourself
Otherwise ask for help

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You have 2 hands and 2 feet…do it yourself!!!

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Ill probably be scolded for this… but…
Considering I’m an independent woman who could even change my own tire, let alone clean my car off, I have no advice for you other than to ask you this…
When your man wants a shower, do you rush to turn it on for him?
Is he be grown man, and can do it himself?

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Seriously? Lol you really couldn’t just lift the wipers yourself? If you’re going to own a vehicle, then you must know how to maintain one yourself and yes that means wiping the snow off yourself or simply just ask.

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Honestly, I would have loved for him to say it that calmly? Or even do it at all for me, so that I didn’t have to. :woman_shrugging:

and imo it’s not about “men’s” work or “women’s” work but yeah if you are getting the kids ready to go and the windshield needs scraped then he needs to take some initiative and freaking do it. does he have to ask you to get the kids ready and out the door? no? then you shouldn’t have to ask him to take care of the other tasks that need done.

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Wow… do it yourself or ask. He can’t read your entitled mind.

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I mean you’re fully capable of doing it lol but if you don’t want to wipe the windshield off then just ask him. I hate doing it so I ask my husband to :joy::woman_shrugging:t2:

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If all I ever had to worry about was who tf was gonna unstick my windshield wiper🙄 u have two hands. Do it urself. He sounds annoyed with u…like the rest of us.

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Looks like your husband woke up on the wrong side of the bed. Yes, nobody is a mind reader, but a caring husband would just do it without being asked. Obvious things like that, I really don’t think you should have to ask.

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Oh god no…my hubby is respectful…very caring n loving

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Sounds like he’s looking for validation of being needed. If asking boosts his ego, do it. All you have to do is change your wording to get what you desire. Is that really that bad? I mean, he is doing the work. Get over it.

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He’s not a mind reader and you’re not his mommy. You’re both wrong. You shouldn’t have to ask for obvious things, but you can’t expect him to always know what you want either.

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I don’t have to ask my man to do anything for me, if I do all something it’s a simple request that he fulfills. He takes care of everything bill wise, house and car wise. :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:🤷:innocent: