Should I have to ask my husband for simple things?

For one u don’t ask u just tell them. # boss bitch

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If you can speak why don’t you ask him? He can not read your mind!

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Have you actually asked him for help? What was the purpose of saying “my wipers are stuck”? Were you expecting him to jump out of his seat and do as you commanded right away? You could have cleaned the wipers yourself. You should not expect him to do everything, and definitely shouldn’t expect him to be a mind reader. If you can’t ask, don’t expect it to just be done for you.

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Unsaid expectations are premeditated resentments. If you have a need, ask. That’s all he wanted you to do.

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If you can’t unstick your own wipers, you have no business driving a car. What happens when they get stuck when you’re inside a store? Most men want to feel needed, but you really want to feel so helpless?

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I’ve been married 14 years. We’ve been through hell and back. So let me just tell you what you probably don’t want to hear. Yes you have to ask him. Trust me your life will be easier once you just ask for the things you need. Pretty soon he will catch on.

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You keep saying OUR
But yet, you’re not doing shit, you just expect him to jump- and do it all for you :joy:

Asking a good man shows him that you respect his freedom of choice rather then assuming he will do it. I.ask even when i know he will say yes and always thank him.

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Yea I have to constantly have to ask my lazy ass husband to do things and it’s like telling a toddler something they throw a big tantrum . Then we fight because I tell him how it is .

Men do not owe us anything nor do they need to bow down and entertain our every want. Its wipers, you can clean off your windshield yourself. You’re acting very entitled. Unless you have something physically wrong writh your arms/hands you are more than capable of cleaning off your car yourself. If you don’t want to, simply ask him if he can. What will you do when he’s not in the car with you??

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And do you automatically do things for him w/out asking? I do agree that he sounds like he wants you to ask so he can feel all He - Man rescuing the damsel in distress syndrome lol. It’s a simple task cleaning your car off / do it yourself it’s not hard

You are being rude and apparently he agrees with me by the way he responds. Is it too much to even say hey babe can you grab the wipers please. Also I’m :100: positive you are capable of doing these things yourself you would rather just be rude about it then ask nicely. Maybe you shouldn’t have to ask. However would it kill you to be nice about it. It sounds like you dont appreciate what he does do and he notices. Honey not vinegar. Your really rude like really really rude

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No. My husband does everything. He gets the oil changed when it needs it, buys new tires, fills up the tank, takes it for maintenance, details it. He handles everything and I am so grateful. I am capable of doing everything but he prefers to take care of everything. That’s how his dad is, it’s how his brother is.

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I have no problem asking my man to do anything and everything! Lol especially in the cold. But I usually don’t have to ask because he does it without hesitation :woman_shrugging:

Yes, if you want help you should ask. And no you shouldn’t expect anyone to just do something for you.
just because hes a man doesn’t mean he should just do it because you feel it’s a man thing.
Im sure you wouldn’t like it if your husband felt anytime you were near the kitchen you should be cooking or doing dishes…
Talk to each other, ask and offer help with any tasks. Makes life much easier

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You sound high maintenance.

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Id rather just do it myself. Hate relying on my husband that just so grumpy when you ask him to do anything. If i cant do it tough it can wait.

Men are not mind readers, if you want his help with something YOU HAVE TO ASK FOR IT,

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I’ve never expected any man to do that kind of stuff for me and it’s unfair to expect him to.
If I need help with something I ask. Which I would expect from him also.