Umm he’s 23 he’s not a child anymore and can do as he pleases it’s not up to his dad… where he goes,who he sees nothing at all…
It’s none of his business
Your house, your life, your rules. Not to mention the son is a grown ass man. Tell the ex to kick rocks and then radio silence.
Hes 23. That should be your answer.
… if the child in question that wants to visit you and his siblings is 23… then sperm donor mcpooper has zero say. It’s between adults
How son is a adult and can do what he wants . You are not married to his father anymore so you can do whatever you want . Sounds like ex is a bitter man
Pretty silly question considering ya’ll are adults. If he wants to visit you and his brother and you are ok with that. Who else matters really??? Screw your ex hubby!!!
Your ex sounds like a pos. None of his business
Sounds like this young man could use another good influence in his life. He chose you. Since you already consider him family, it shouldn’t be too hard to welcome him into your home.
Not the ex’s business, let that baby be with his family
Let the wrath come. The young man clearly knows what he wants and knows his dad is miserable. He just wants to see his family that he knows he loves and is safe.
Wow! You’re are just asking for all the drama! You need to grow up!
He’s an adult, you can be friends. The X has 0 say in what another adult does.
Let him stay. It is amazing he still sees you as family. Your ex has a problem. I think it is wrong for your ex to do that
Nurture the sibling relationship. F the ex, his feelings no longer exist.
Why do you even discuss it with him?
At 23 the son is an adult! If he wants a relationship with his younger brother then that’s between you, him, and your child. Your ex has no say in this matter. The older son sounds like a positive role model which is more than I’m getting about your ex!!
wow the only time i would stop him from visiting is if his younger siblings didn’t want contact as he is an adult it really doesn’t have anything to with your ex unless he is saying he is unsafe to be round the young ones
I am a firm believer that siblings deserve to have a relationship… and being that big brother is an adult … he can make his own decisions. It’s honestly not even bio dads business at this point . If he is asking for a relationship with his sibling I would allow it .
Ummm why not have a bond? You shouldn’t be asking yourself this question! You know the right thing to do:)