Should I take my childs father back to court?

Would you take your child’s father back to court for supervised visits if he moved a woman in with him, who had her two children removed from her care? I just feel if a judge determined her unsafe around her own children, she shouldn’t be around mine.

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No this sounds crazy you don’t know her circumstances or her story. If you meet her and then decide she is not safe then take him back but don’t judge a book by its cover.

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I’ve known good people who’ve had their kids taken by shady judges and ex’s with deep pockets. I’ve known people who should never be around kids to keep them after others tried and begged to have them removed. Definitely find out more but don’t jump to conclusions.

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You are your child’s only advocate. & your ex is thinking w a diff body part, not his brain. So yes. A Judge felt for whatever the reason is, her children should be taken out of her care. Do u want the same for your child?

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Absolutely, there’s a reason her children were taken. Your child’s safety is #1

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Could be possible she cannot provide care for any children. I’d consult CPS to start with. They may have a problem with her being around your children.

I wouldn’t want my kids around her. If she lost custody of her own children…it’d be an easy no to me!

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If you think a person’s unsafe for YOUR CHILD then do what you gotta do. To many stories of babies being hurt by their mom’s/dad’s new bf/gf. Besides your baby your rules. Daddy don’t like it then off to court to settle things.

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How long ago were her own children taken? Is she working on getting them back? You should get to know her and the circumstances. She’s not the enemy. I understand your concern for your children but it sounds like you’re jumping the gun a bit possibly.

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Mmmmmm nope if she legally had her kids taken from her. You better figure something out I wouldn’t let my child back in daddy’s custody until that’s figured out. You need answers…

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I don’t care if it’s judgy or might hurt someone’s feels if I feel uneasy about a person alone with my child then I would do something about it. Better safe than sorry

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I’d definitely wouldnt allow my children to be around this, unless I’d investigate on the whole situation!!!

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Take him back to court. You have to do some serious stuff to have your kids taken and not have fought whatever charge till your last breath.

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Give the father visiting rights without hassles.

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Yes. When it comes to my kids I’m not taking any chances

Yup I would…never risk the safety of your kids…better to be safe then sorry

Can you search her name on your counties court records? See if theres any charges/court transcripts?

Yes I would or find out why kids were taken first

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Hows long ago did her problem start, has she been cleared and just not fought for them, i know where im from if you’re still in the system so to speak then you are not permitted to reside with someone who has kids, I’d mention it to a lawyer see what they have tho say

Yes you don’t know what might happen

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