Should I tell my husband that I think our daughter may be pregnant?

#1

I just recently found out that my 17-year-old daughter is sexually active. This came as a huge surprise to me. I talked with her about being safe and getting on birth control. After we talked, I got to thinking that she hasn’t had a period this month, and I don’t remember her having a period last month. I don’t know if I should tell my husband about finding out about our daughter and my suspicion about being her being pregnant.

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#2

Talk with your daughter first and then talk to your husband

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#3

I think I would confront my daughter first and get a test. Make her take the test and if it’s positive then tell him.

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#4

Maybe you should find out if she is pregnant first. Don’t just jump to conclusions

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#5

I would find out if she is pregnant first, don’t just assume

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#6

I’d be making her take a pregnancy test and go from there

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#7

Talk with your daughter do a pregnancy test then talk to the husband

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#8

Talk to your daughter first and if she is, then talk to your husband after you know for sure. Telling your husband she might and she isn’t can cause tension in the household

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#9

I think you should ask your daughter first then ask if she wants anyone to know if she is.

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#10

Wait until she tells you. Dont break your daughters trust because if this is the case that’s the reason why she hasn’t told you yet or if she will

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#11

Talk to your daughter. Pregnancy test. Doctor visit to confirm pregnancy or to start birth control. Ask your daughter how she feels about discussing her sex life with her father. If my daughter asks that something like that stays between us, I’m going to respect that.

#12

Talk 2 ur daughter 1st hopefully she will b open & honest with u… Make ur nxt move after the conversation…

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#13

Find out first then break the news, men don’t do well with speculation. They need facts to problem solve.

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#14

Talk to your daughter first

#15

Or even maybe she did get on BC and is on the depo

#16

Yes talk to your husband!!! He’s YOUR PARTNER

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#17

Talk to your daughter first.

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#18

Speak to your daughter…don’t upset your husband or yourself until you know for sure …then she can decide what she wants …she may have already had the contraception injection which can stop periods

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#19

Yeah find out first. Don’t upset your husband for no reason

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#20

I would definitely talk with your daughter first, if she hasn’t had her menstrual cycle something else could be going on,

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