Since having my daughter I do not feel the same about my husband: Thoughts?

I just had my daughter five weeks ago, and I don’t know why, but since the day we came home from the hospital, I have not been feeling the same about my husband. For some reason, I am SO annoyed and almost disgusted by him at times. It’s not that he is not a good father. He is so great with our baby, and he loves her so much. I seriously don’t even want him to kiss me most of the time. Every conversation leads to an argument. I am jealous of you ladies who want sex and actually can stand the thought of having sex with your husbands! I feel so horrible right now. I don’t know what this is! I know I love my husband. Someone, please tell me this is temporary. I feel like I need space and a break from it all, but then I see him with our daughter, and my heart melts. I need your help, ladies! What should I do? Should I tell him how I feel? I really don’t want to hurt him! Uhhh, I want to be normal again!

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This happened with me too. It eventually went away. I just had to remind myself he’s a great dad

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It’s all part of postpartum hormones.

Don’t forget lack of sleep.

It usually passes

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Sounds like hormones and PPD. Definitely talk to your dr.

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This sounds like post part I’m depression. Please talk to your doctor about what you have as far as options. Therapy is definitely something to look into. We’re here for you mama.

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Ppd is real. Also you shouldn’t even have sex til after 6 weeks and a check from your doctor. Your uterus has a gaping wound in it right now.

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Sounds like some post partum. Talk to your doctor

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Hormones are a bitch! Allow your body to adjust to all these changes!!! If continues y’all to your doctor!

It’s normal. It eventually fades away.

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Sounds like you may have some postpartum depression. When yoi go back to your doctor definitely talk with them about it.

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100% normal. Your body will take awhile to go back to normal but it will go back and those feelings will go away

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You just had a baby. Give it some time

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It sounds like you have postpartum depression or just the hormones. I would speak to your doctor about it and just remember that you and his life has changed dramatically but you need to be able to sit down and explain what is going on. So he knows that you are having a hard time right now but that you still love him and want to work it out no matter what.

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Talk to your doctor! This is definitely part of postpartum hormones! :heart:

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Postpartum. Talk to him be honest. It will pass

It’s hormones ! :woman_facepalming:t3::woman_facepalming:t3:stupid things that they are, it will pass in time , give your self a break . Just take each day as it comes and let him help you if you need it

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It will be ok, it def sounds like post partum. Please speak with your gyno…they will have tips on how to deal. It might be a natural response in out brain to stay away from the male for awhile, :blush:. Better days ahead :heart:

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Happen to me. And we broke up lol and I didnt love him lol. I before the baby maybe but after baby nope I didnt love them

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Maybe resentment if you didnt have a easy birth?

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I am currently 16wks pregnant and feel the same about my husband. Since I got pregnant I just havent felt the same about him and just dont want to be bothered by him.