I’ve had to have a getaway bags & box. Important documents or copies. A few outfits, underwear, socks, a blanket, and comfort stuffy for baby. Toothbrushes, and paste, hairbrush. Start saving money in the bag. A burner phone and Phone charger, save numbers you must have in that phone.
Do not just try to leave. You have to make a plan. Attempting to leave spur of the moment can cause a great deal of chaos. Know of safe places to go. Family. Friends. Shelters for abused woman & children. Know at least 2 routes to each location. When you leave make sure to leave your regular phone take the SD card, or if it’s an iPhone have your iCloud information and back up your phone prior to leaving. The main priory is to get you and baby out safety, quickly and quietly.
If you’re suspect of what’s happening around you, trust your gut. Don’t wait for something bad to happen. Things won’t change, they won’t get better. You and your daughter deserve better. You can do this alone, it may be hard at first but it’s worth it. I promise. If you need advice, someone to talk to, or help with planning. Please reach out to me if need be. I won’t judge.