Thoughts on threesomes?

Opinions on threesomes. My husband is really pushing for a threesome. He always brings it up during sex. It obviously really turns him on, and I like the idea but I’m beyond nervous… I’ve been with this man for 14 years and no one else. In anyone’s experience, has this caused issues in their marriage later on if they do it? Does it become a thing he always wants?

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So is he going to do another dude in front of you ?

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That has NO written all over it

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I would think it would ruin a marriage and never a good idea to bring another one into a marriage especially for sex. Lots of emotions form.

Make sure you get a guy to join first :rofl: bet he won’t be okay with that.

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Tell him you’ll ask one of your guy friends to be the 3rd person then :tipping_hand_woman:t3:

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Does he want to involve another man or another woman?

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Caused serious issues for my best friend when she gave in and gave him what he wanted. They’re divorced now after 14 years.

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So he wants you to watch him f*** another woman or he’s wanting you to watch him have sex with another man or he wants to watch you have sex with another man or woman personally I think that sounds like a lot of work adding another person. If you cannot be sexually satisfied with your partner there’s some serious issues… he has issues… know your worth baby girl…

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Dump his disgusting ass and respect yourself more than that!

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In my opinion that’s something I could do before marriage but with someone I’m sp committed to and they to me I’m not sure how I would be comfortable with that. Does he want to do said things with person or just watch?

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Are you a queen or a pauper❓

Oh hell to the no way!

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Tell him to get lost, he should not be asking at all

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Sounds like he just wants to sleep with someone else

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If my husband wanted a 3some I would think he probably already had someone (woman) in mind. And if he’s pushing for a 3some he’s trying to find a way to be with that woman “legitimately” without going “outside” our marriage or “cheating” on me. But in my opinion, I can’t share. I’ve heard stories, from my husband from his patients, who have 3somes and then the guys are sleeping with the other woman when the wife isn’t around because well, she was okay with it to begin with during the 3some and it isn’t like I’m cheating. Ummm…not sure that’s how it works. Solid no from me.

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I was the one that wanted the extra. Works fine in mine :woman_shrugging:

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I personally couldn’t do it

My bf mentions he would like to see it but NEVER says anything during sex and it’s really once in a blue moon bc it would NEVER happen with me

Nope you will regret it. ! And he shouldn’t even be thinking of anyone else scum bag :disappointed:

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Ask him if he’s agreeable to a three way for you with another guy if you agree to one with another girl, that’s might make him rethink it

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